This is Not a Reply

If your letter was the first thing directed towards me then I would have loved to reply, but this letter is not the first thing you sent my way.

First you wrote “curiosity” ilog, implying that my “mean” comment on your ilog is because of my marital status (and maybe my age, which you tried to guess), and you also didn’t forget to highlight my marital status while addressing me in your letter. You blame me to be judgmental and to have penchant of female gossip but you fail to realize that how judgmental and gossip-provoking you your self are while talking about something I didn’t share on public forum. All my comments had been related to what you wrote in your ilog (complete or incomplete, full or half truth, whatever it is) but I didn’t talk/guess about things, you didn’t share. Even after that, I am the one who is gossiper/judgmental and you are not. Great!

I dropped a comment on your curiosity ilog which was not abusive or derogatory (rather, that was in my own defense, I tried to tell that what I said was not because of my marital status but the because I believe in respecting yourself first) but you not only deleted that, but you also loosened the chain of your cyber-pet to attack me with the worst possible abusive language (and then you complain about derogatory and biased comments). I won’t even comment on that because I will have to lower myself to a level of a lowlife.

It was still OK until you repeated more or less same crap but in relatively civilized manner (thanks for that) . That implies you not only endorse what had been written but it was written with your consent. Now when you endorse that rubbish why would I even reply to you. You proved that are the same thing just in a better wrapper?

Your letter is also filled with judgments about me, about the things I have never talked about in my ilogs. You think you have right to say anything about me following, “I have noticed” and “ I know”, but at the same time my comments that are only relevant to issues you, yourself brought into public are not only judgmental but also “poking into your ‘personal’ matters”. But it is ok when you and your team not only try to guess things I never brought in public, but also claim to know very well about my relationships with my in-laws and my possible phobias. But at the end of the day I am judgmental, I am the one who love female gossip.

Even though its you who write ilogs on romantic tragedy but still I am the one who is enthusiastic about so-called romance and not you, just because I commented on them. Let alone discussing, I never talked about you in my personal interaction with any chowky but you not only discuss me but also conclude things about me but still you are not the one who love gossip. That is me !!!

Please don't feel free to respond, because I can’t lower myself to the level you have fallen to. Say whatever you want to say, I won’t respond or interact with you.

Cigar