Farzana Versey February 6, 2006
#37 Posted by Love2love on February 7, 2006 4:48:42 am
Battle of the sexes has never sounded so filmi. That`s a compliment.
#36 Posted by harish_hyd on February 7, 2006 1:50:02 am
#34 by ranjit
[Therefore, Heidi Fleiss`s idea will be a total flop because women never need to pay for sex. Why pay when you can get it for free?]
Let`s pray for the sake of the studs that it doesn`t fail :-)
[Therefore, Heidi Fleiss`s idea will be a total flop because women never need to pay for sex. Why pay when you can get it for free?]
Let`s pray for the sake of the studs that it doesn`t fail :-)
#35 Posted by burpinder on February 6, 2006 11:51:05 pm
#34 ranjit
Isn`t that eggjhactly what she was rambling on about??!!
Isn`t that eggjhactly what she was rambling on about??!!
#34 Posted by Ranjit on February 6, 2006 9:54:15 pm
Ferzana,
Someone once said - ``Women give sex to get love. Men give love to get sex``!! That is the basic difference between men and women.
Men like commitment free sex. It is in our nature. If we are hunks and can get it for free, great. Most of us are not and cannot get it for free. So we are willing to pay for it - one way or the other. We get married or go to prostitutes. Bottom line, we sign on the dotted line of some transaction in order to get sex.
Women want sex with commitment. That is how God made them. A woman can get free sex anytime she wants. She just has to walk into a bar and offer herself to the first guy. But a woman does not want just that. She wants sex and the intimacy, the commitment etc., which is hard to get since men do not want to give that. Therefore, Heidi Fleiss`s idea will be a total flop because women never need to pay for sex. Why pay when you can get it for free?
#33 Posted by burpinder on February 6, 2006 8:28:34 pm
Oooooh..looks like someone`s been reading the Vagina Monologues lately..
What is this article all about? How is that despicable ``madam`` Heidi analogous to Shahrukh Khan, who for all his faults, is an honourable man. If SRK plugged his movie as a ``pro-woman``, he was probably doing it a bit of PR that never hurt anyone.
This piece is not feminist, it`s a pathetic whine. Women pay for sex..oooooh, we don`t think that way. We need emotion, we ``remember``, we`ll go to the stud farm to satisfy our curiosity, but that`s it.
Grow up lady, if Heidi`s onto something here, she`ll reap the fruit. If not, the market will put her in his place. I am assuming prostitution is legal in Nevada, or else she would not be planning all this. So why get all uppity and sanctimonious about it?
What is this article all about? How is that despicable ``madam`` Heidi analogous to Shahrukh Khan, who for all his faults, is an honourable man. If SRK plugged his movie as a ``pro-woman``, he was probably doing it a bit of PR that never hurt anyone.
This piece is not feminist, it`s a pathetic whine. Women pay for sex..oooooh, we don`t think that way. We need emotion, we ``remember``, we`ll go to the stud farm to satisfy our curiosity, but that`s it.
Grow up lady, if Heidi`s onto something here, she`ll reap the fruit. If not, the market will put her in his place. I am assuming prostitution is legal in Nevada, or else she would not be planning all this. So why get all uppity and sanctimonious about it?
#32 Posted by bjkumar on February 6, 2006 5:26:45 pm
#31 Ranjit
Ranjit, if what you say is correct, I am glad this writer has discovered humor - that would be a first (although I kind of doubt it - I don`t think she has that ability. (In my opinion, she won`t know humor if she met it on the street or if it hit her on head or bit her (elsewhere). The same holds for her entourage. (They don`t even realize when they get had for lunch. (Not by me, though (NEVER by me)))))
PS: In view of your enthusiastic participation in some of those Indo-Pak, Hindu-Muslim topics, you could have fooled me into believing that for you it was NOT boring!!
#31 Posted by Ranjit on February 6, 2006 4:19:47 pm
Re:bjkumar#29
Sir, you are taking things too seriously. This is just a light article written in a tounge in cheek manner. The responses are also in the same vein. Given the boring Indo-Pak, hindu-muslim articles we are normally subjected to, this is quite refreshing as a change.
No need to start doing sophisticated market surveys and data analysis!!
Sir, you are taking things too seriously. This is just a light article written in a tounge in cheek manner. The responses are also in the same vein. Given the boring Indo-Pak, hindu-muslim articles we are normally subjected to, this is quite refreshing as a change.
No need to start doing sophisticated market surveys and data analysis!!
#30 Posted by jang on February 6, 2006 3:35:54 pm
i have not seen paheli, but i had a classmate in college from rai-bareilly dist village, and he would always go home for a few days during ``sawan`` month, even at the risk of missing an important acedemic event (fortunately sawan would fall early in the semester). so the deal was, he would hook-up with ladies who have the traditional ``maike`` (mothers house) home-coming. according to him, girls in the biradari before marriage were definately off-limits, but after marriage they were happy to hook-up with their ``maike`` friends. as a norm, husbands and their family would always be suspicious of non-brother maike visitor.
#29 Posted by bjkumar on February 6, 2006 3:29:07 pm
#25 HP
Let’s cut this argument short. Show me some data that U.S. population APPROVES of casual sex and that the percentage of women approving such is same as that of men!
#26 #27 Iron_Mask
You are off topic! (If you don`t mind my being blunt - take your sycophancy elsewhere!)
#27 Posted by iron_mask on February 6, 2006 3:13:44 pm
and impose censorship of the worst kind on us
#26 Posted by iron_mask on February 6, 2006 3:12:21 pm
beej, chill pill is the need of the hour!
Farzana has writen a gem of a peice..she is turning out to be the master stroke of the chowk-staff
she has single handedly turned this place around and saved us all from the clutches of boring old english language teachers who wannabe intellectuals
Farzana has writen a gem of a peice..she is turning out to be the master stroke of the chowk-staff
she has single handedly turned this place around and saved us all from the clutches of boring old english language teachers who wannabe intellectuals
#25 Posted by HP on February 6, 2006 2:49:37 pm
#24 Beej,
``but the vast majority in this country does not approve of CASUAL sex – and the number of women who take sex casually is even smaller. ``
Are you posting from India?
I am not sure we are talking about the same country....Even mormans are having fun nowdays. Where are you stuck? Even S.Carolina is doing well!
Ranjit,
There are some good jokes about small out there...some other time....
``but the vast majority in this country does not approve of CASUAL sex – and the number of women who take sex casually is even smaller. ``
Are you posting from India?
I am not sure we are talking about the same country....Even mormans are having fun nowdays. Where are you stuck? Even S.Carolina is doing well!
Ranjit,
There are some good jokes about small out there...some other time....
#24 Posted by bjkumar on February 6, 2006 2:36:06 pm
#22 Dear HP
I am fully aware of your attempts to provoke me – but that trick is too old and it’s not going to work! Your devious designs are doomed. So, let me patiently explain again.
Of course, having sex is not immoral – but the vast majority in this country does not approve of CASUAL sex – and the number of women who take sex casually is even smaller. A lot of that thinking is grounded in a strong moral foundation – it runs throughout this country – and makes it strong, in my view.
But the dipsomaniac in you won’t understand it, anyway!
Returning to this issue of differences between men and women, let me quote the following excerpts from an article by Mary V. Seeman, MD, from the book “Women`s Health: Hormones, Emotions, and Behavior” edited by Regina C. Casper – the book is intended for clinicians and trainees in psychiatry, internal medicine, and primary care.
“Although the physiology and psychology of women and men are almost identical, the small differences, attributable mainly to sex hormones, influence mood and behavior and lead to differential responses on the part of others. Most cultures, throughout history, have institutionalized these differences and encouraged the evolution of two separately elaborated social roles, one for women and one for men. This has resulted in many inequities, notably unequal opportunities in the workplace, which have had further effects on the consequences of sex on the individual. At this stage of cultural evolution, it is almost impossible to disentangle the role of hormonal difference from the many layers of social attributions that have magnified and complicated this difference. From a health viewpoint, however, it is important, when it comes to sex, to try to sweep away the elaborate and enticing cobwebs of role expectations and biased perceptions and carefully to examine what makes men and women hormonally different and how this difference influences emotion, behavior, prevention of illness, psychiatric morbidity, optimal treatment strategies, and, ultimately, outcome of illness….”
#23 Posted by Ranjit on February 6, 2006 2:20:55 pm
Re:HP#22
[...Mostly true but money is of no use to desis…BMW is of no help. they just don’t get picked…sorry! Bad rep…size matters! :) ...]
Ha ha!! You may have a point there.
I had a sikh friend who was a topper at IIT Delhi. The guy had made it pretty big in Silicon Valley at a young age. One night he was parked outside a nightclub in his BMW. One of those, total ``randi`` type goris walked out and came near his car and looked in. Then she said,``Oh, its just an Indian!!`` and walked away :-). My friend was so pissed for months after that!!
Anyway, he got is revenge. He did manage to bag a gori eventually. Got married to her and settled down happily.
[...Mostly true but money is of no use to desis…BMW is of no help. they just don’t get picked…sorry! Bad rep…size matters! :) ...]
Ha ha!! You may have a point there.
I had a sikh friend who was a topper at IIT Delhi. The guy had made it pretty big in Silicon Valley at a young age. One night he was parked outside a nightclub in his BMW. One of those, total ``randi`` type goris walked out and came near his car and looked in. Then she said,``Oh, its just an Indian!!`` and walked away :-). My friend was so pissed for months after that!!
Anyway, he got is revenge. He did manage to bag a gori eventually. Got married to her and settled down happily.
#22 Posted by HP on February 6, 2006 1:51:25 pm
#20 by bjkumar
Beej! Beej!!
Here you go again like the 700 Gandhi pictures….
“such people can NEVER appreciate the strong moral core running through this country, which allows this country to survive and thrive in spite of the aberrations which such individuals think are the norms.”
God! you do sound like a right wing Jesus freak. Thing that passes by you time and time again is very simple. Having sex is not immoral. There is nothing immoral about it.
So woman having sex negates the moral core running through this country. You are just totally out of it… so full of it...Get a handle man!
#21 ranjit,
Ranjit,
“How are you so sure that no one approaches us desi guys?”
Maybe a couple but Beej is not one of them :)
“Especially american girls who are crazy about money. And you know us desis have boatloads of the almighty dollar these days. You drive a BMW and work as a VP in a company, you can pretty much do anything, as long as you are in reasonable physical shape.”
Mostly true but money is of no use to desis…BMW is of no help. they just don’t get picked…sorry! Bad rep…size matters! :)
Beej! Beej!!
Here you go again like the 700 Gandhi pictures….
“such people can NEVER appreciate the strong moral core running through this country, which allows this country to survive and thrive in spite of the aberrations which such individuals think are the norms.”
God! you do sound like a right wing Jesus freak. Thing that passes by you time and time again is very simple. Having sex is not immoral. There is nothing immoral about it.
So woman having sex negates the moral core running through this country. You are just totally out of it… so full of it...Get a handle man!
#21 ranjit,
Ranjit,
“How are you so sure that no one approaches us desi guys?”
Maybe a couple but Beej is not one of them :)
“Especially american girls who are crazy about money. And you know us desis have boatloads of the almighty dollar these days. You drive a BMW and work as a VP in a company, you can pretty much do anything, as long as you are in reasonable physical shape.”
Mostly true but money is of no use to desis…BMW is of no help. they just don’t get picked…sorry! Bad rep…size matters! :)
#21 Posted by Ranjit on February 6, 2006 1:23:59 pm
Re:HP#17
[...You will rarely find a woman(barring south asian) in this country, who will hesitate to make the first move…Now obviously that is something you don’t know as no one would approach you. Your dilemma is pronounced.…. ]
HPji, How are you so sure that no one approaches us desi guys? Its all a funciton of the almighty dollar. Pure economics (except for college, where it is hormones)!!
Just show the moolah, and any american girl, chinese girl, desi girl or whatever, will come to you. Especially american girls who are crazy about money. And you know us desis have boatloads of the almighty dollar these days. You drive a BMW and work as a VP in a company, you can pretty much do anything, as long as you are in reasonable physical shape.
[...You will rarely find a woman(barring south asian) in this country, who will hesitate to make the first move…Now obviously that is something you don’t know as no one would approach you. Your dilemma is pronounced.…. ]
HPji, How are you so sure that no one approaches us desi guys? Its all a funciton of the almighty dollar. Pure economics (except for college, where it is hormones)!!
Just show the moolah, and any american girl, chinese girl, desi girl or whatever, will come to you. Especially american girls who are crazy about money. And you know us desis have boatloads of the almighty dollar these days. You drive a BMW and work as a VP in a company, you can pretty much do anything, as long as you are in reasonable physical shape.
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