An Unfulfilled Desire

salam.

Dee, i feel that not a single word ever written,conceived of or uttered in this wold can ease your agony. I just want to say that just have strong and firm faith in Allah and you will get a child/ren of your own INSHAALLAH for i believe that miracles do happen in this world. Do not ever lose hope, please.

A child does not need to come out of one`s own womb for one to share love with it as a full-fledged parent. There are plenty of ways to extend our love to those constant sources of problems and forever headaches that we simply cannot live without - adoption being one way. The trick is not to be as focused on one`s own individual needs as that of others. Your parents should perhaps done the same and then you would have hated them less.

There is no need to get cold feet - genetics are just one tiny (perhaps trivial) part of a parent-child relationship.