When Romantic Love Does Not Mature

Dr Sohail Saab Jee,
Aslam Walekum:

Ki haal Chaal Je?

I was wondering if you left Chowk for Good or were on a small vacation?

Nice article and has some good points but it is more of idealistic approach that you are mentioning.

Ek Geet Sadde Pind vich Amlee Gaanda si:

Kisi Nay Majnu nu kya We MajnuYa tere Laila te barrey Kaale Hai.
Majnu ne tunakde hoye Jawab ditta, mere laiala tere te tuahdey dil dono kaale ne....

Point; When people fall in love then they dont care about healthy relationships, only healthy Sex is considered.

thanks

Re: # 4
Dear nadia_zehra...poets have wonderful insights in human psychology and relationships.

Being a poet myself I try to capture some thoughts in poetry that I cannot capture in prose

You might like one of my couplets about relationships

aaj kal rishton ka ye aalam hay

jo bhi nibh jaiy bhala lagta hay

thanks for commenting on my article...sincerely...sohail

Re: # 3
Dear Madeeha...we all pass through different stages of personal and social growth. Some

families and cultures enhance such growth more than others. Being aware of our strengths

and limitations help us become better friends and romantic partners. Thank you for your

comments....sincerely sohail

Khalid Sahib:

You might have read Nasir Kazmi`s very non-quixotic verses that explains a temperament of human nature and I feel this is also categorically an unripened love ethic but one cant blame nature and its laws that it enforces on us:

Niyat-e-Shauq bhar na jaye Kahi.n
Tou bhi Dil say utar na jaye Kahi.n

It is a prominent nature of person to be inquisitive and become skill of coming close to another person and this is sometimes juvinelly called as ``Crush`` that fades away with maturity of time relation. These relations are time short but they do deal with natural instinct and sense to vanquish your thoughts for others...

And Poetry is also a communicating bridge and it also holds many psychological esteems.

i know individuals who follow some of the patterns which you speak off.
some of them are inherent within myself.
but your article provided a greater understanding of it all.
thank you :)

Interesting, thought provoking, well articulated and good reading. Thanks

the article had a few thought provoking points but it seemed like the assignment of a fifth grader with all those headings and quotes.......but anyways thanx for what u said.....it did ring a few bells.....add more depth next time.....a detailed part 2 of this one is a good idea......