Does Islam, in fact, Encourage Paedophilia?

There is a reason why people resort to nasty insults on chowk, - its for lack of an alternative, since there is zero willingness to engage in true dialogue. I think this place is like being in the death spiral of a really nasty marriage and at this point it doesnt matter if someone even gives you a kidney because last year they screwed your best friend.

1.Clearly muslims do not hold the world record on pedophilia, admittedly data that comes out of india and pakistan alike is crap but if the nabs on pedo's in america are any reflection this is way more likely to be an indian thing. I actually doubt any part of the world has more pedophiles than any other part of the world.

2. Clearly even the most hardlining muslims use phones, they go to school, they use the internet, etc etc etc ....so clearly not only did the Prophet NOT ask to be emulated down to the last detail noone does that as a matter of faith either.

3.Clearly religion has got to be interpreted. Some people will always be sick no matter what they say they say they believe in. People who are not sick (muslims and nonmuslims alike) can see quite clearly that the message is not about abusing children and women. Actually for that time and the place Islam was an exceedingly progressive and feminist religion. But its impossible to inflict current progressive mores retro-actively.


I think we all know the above exceedingly simple points are all true ...but i guess it would defeat the point to show up on chowk and not display some highly malignant point of view, so i dont expect any recognition.

Re: # 209

subhash,

..... i agree with you 100 percent, except on the little matter of getting flogged for insulting a madrasi ...... the madrasis insult my aesthetic sensibilities by appearing in public places ........ if they stop doing that, i will stop insulting them ....... deal ?

GTG. Have fun, everybody.

Wait, he will now post pictures the mutilated bodies of Indian soldiers, hahaha.

If nothing will defend the Messenger of Allah, that sure will, hahaha.

#211 Mohar : Hahaha it is so nice to see pious Al-Jehadis defending the prophet (A to Z) by throwing mud on ordinary common-o-garden pimps and traffickers.

Kya yeh din dekhna baki reh gaya tha? Hahaha.

This is Aisha's take on what she underwent with Mo the mighty...
The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became Allright, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a good luck." Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age. (Bukhari, Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234)

re. hamzaad #116:

Here is a question: The creator of the planets and universal laws commissioned a man to recite Arabic for posterity. If indeed this man, at the age of 53, enagaged in kissing/fondling, say, a 19 year old girl, should we hold his ways of doing other things as exemplary?

If we can agree that a 19 yo, or a 12 yo for that matter, is capable of giving consent, then Hell, yes!

"... we have to resolve this for the all the 19 year old girls who are saying no to 53 year old good men..."

Funny, but we heard nary a word about 'resolution' when Rod Stewart last tied the knot... Maybe that's coz the 19 (or 21?) y-o in question didn't say no to begin with. Are you suggesting that Mohammed's marriage to Ayesha sets a precedent for marriage against the will of the female? Please clarify how, if so.

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tehsin,

..... you were always a pathetic pineless creature ! ......... it seems that you have meekly accepted urstruly's argument that girls should be married off as soon as they reach puberty because some perverts from ny city are going all the way to bangkok to have sex with little girls ...... he also seems to imply that nine and ten year old girls lust after dirty old men with beer bellies and bad breath and should therfore be allowed to marry them .......

..... shame on you for letting him get away with this stuff ..... you deserve the soon to be imposed sharia laws in greenwich !

Hamidm ji, neither me, nor any other Indian is denying bride burning in India, shamefacedly or otherwise. The question was only about the figure. However, those who do such things should be hanged by the lampposts.

Also, those who spread ethnic hatred against Madrasis or Bengalis or even Sndhis or Punjabis, should be flogged publicly.

Do you agree, Sir?

re. ajeya #115
A few months ago a man was arrested by the police because the neighbors complained that he used to engage in sex with his pet animals (dogs, horses etc.)...
He appealed to the judge with the argument that his sexual acts caused no emotional or physical harm to the animals. So why was he was being accused of doing anything wrong?

The judge was non-Muslim, so he didn't get the logic."

It would be interesting to know whether the learned, logical judge passed his verdict before or after the tenderloin steak he'd had for lunch ( and how he'd obtained consent of the lamb, or had ascertained that in killing the poor thing for someone's lunch, it wasn't being "emotionally or physically" harmed.

Joshi

Don't worry about Mullah32... As explained to him a million times already - problems in pakiland affect the whole world in general - in form of islamic terrorism - and India and US in particular... Hence such intense focus on paki issues... this in no way diminishes the importance of issues of bride-burning in hinudland or catholic child-sex scandal in bubbaland... :)

Now - back to the current hot topic: Is Mohamand just a regular bedouin abdul full of hate and sin... or a virtous prophet worthy of being a role model for billion-plus unwashed abduls roaming the planet today?

Some pakis say it's the former... other pakis think the man was sinless and noble... and they are ready to behave like him, nay, ahve already adopted the prmitive bedouin ways of living... with horrible berads, camel cola every morning, no showers etc... etc...

:)

TAhmed Sir, what about minorities (esp. Hindus) in Pakistan?

No one answered FV's question that how many of the bhartis' Muslim neighbours have been after their nine year olds?

The same cannot be however said about hindoos themselves. It appears plenty are after pre-teens. It's good business.

Free a Child.org

In India, millions of girls – some as young as 11 – are sold into prostitution. Beaten, raped and forced to live in cages, they have little hope of escape and run an ever-increasing risk of death from AIDS.

Mumbai, a megalopolis of 20 million people, best known by its former name Bombay, is a city in which extravagant mansions overlook the largest slum on earth. Not far from Western-style restaurants that serve the bejeweled elite, one-third of the city’s residents live without running water in hovels constructed of plastic, cardboard and metal sheeting.

In the midst of such poverty and wealth, and far from the routes cleared for President Clinton’s recent state visit, is the world’s largest red-light district, Kamathipura. India has more than two million prostitutes, according to the latest government-sponsored survey. But that was nine years ago, and today the number is considerably higher, possibly double. Five hundred thousand of them, half of whom are minors and indentured sex slaves, suffer hellish existences in Mumbai’s brothels.

Lured from impoverished villages throughout India, Nepal and Bangladesh, young girls are tapped by local recruiters who promise to give them coveted jobs working as domestics or in factories in the big cities. Or they are sold by relatives or neighbors. “If a father has five daughters, he sells two to feed the other three,” says Durga Ghimere, head of ABC Nepal, an agency aiding former sex slaves. Others are duped by brothel procurers who marry them and as many as one hundred other victims. Illiterate and raised to be compliant, these girls have no idea of their fates until they are abandoned in the brothels, but by then it’s too late.

Young girls are auctioned off to the brothels regularly: A pre-teen with light skin goes for as much as $1000; darker-skinned girls sell for $200 to $300. But such sums are recouped by the brothel in a girl’s first few weeks of work. A customer typically pays $45 for a virgin; after her first time, she’ll be turning tricks for one dollar each, with the price dropping to 25 cents in the early hours of the morning, when the customers thin out.

“I was auctioned to the highest bidder when I was 12,” says Yellu. “He became my master, and I had to have sex with him. At 14, he sold me to this brothel. I’ve been here ever since.” It’s where she will stay until she succumbs to tuberculosis, malaria or AIDS. “Seven girls have died from AIDS in this room in the last two years,” she says.

The brothel where Yellu works is a tiny room at the top of a rickety staircase, its banister greasy with the sweat of countless customers’ hands. Inside, there is barely space to move: Three wooden cots, divided by tattered curtains, take up most of the floor space; two more cots are in the hallway. Yellu’s children, aged 5 and 18 months, play on the floor. It’s here that Yellu and her companions service customers from 5 p.m. until dawn. But since the brothel is open for business 24 hours a day, drop-in customers are common at any hour. Outside, on Falkland Road, where bordellos line the street, a mass of men window-shop the human wares.

Yellu is a Devidasi, a socially created prostitute, who was dedicated at the age of 9 by her family to the goddess Yellamma. Devdasis, who come from India’s lowest social caste, the Untouchables, or Dalits, are bonded as slaves to serve higher castes. A few become concubines of the wealthy; the rest are sold off as prostitutes at puberty to appease gods and guard against diseases. The centuries-old system of Devdasis was outlawed in 1987, but since the fine is only 2500 rupees ($59) – far less than a virgin girl brings at auction – the law is largely ignored by parents and police alike.

Up to 80 percent of India’s two million prostitutes are infected with HIV, and a third of those have AIDS.

Now 25, Yellu spends any free time in her tiny room, sleeping when she can, or nursing her youngest child. In the corner is a box off government-distributed condoms, but they are poorly made of thick rubber. “We try to use condoms now that we know about HIV. But man y men won’t use them. They say it spoils their pleasure. And if we insist, they go somewhere else.”

Yellu is lucky she can even suggest a condom to a customer. Girls like Bibi never had that choice. Now 13, Bibi learned recently that she is HIV-positive. However, along with most HIV-positive sex slaves, she is unlikely to receive any medication. Untreated, these infected prostitutes deteriorate rapidly, and once they are too sick to work, they are tossed out on the street to die a painful death.

When she was 11, Bibi was brought to Mumbai from Calcutta by two men. They promised her father that she would be given work looking after a house and a baby. Relieved to have one less mouth to feed, he looked forward to the day his daughter would send some of her earnings home. Instead, Bibi was sold for 10,000 rupees ($238) to a brothel and told she couldn’t leave until she paid back her purchase price, plus 10 percent interest.

Describing her first night in the brothel, Bibi says: “I didn’t even have breasts yet, but men forced me to have sex. They hurt me bad. I cried for the next two years. Nobody cared.” Bibi was confined to a narrow cubicle, some 28 inches wide, known as a pinjra, and told that any attempt to escape would result in a severe beating or even torture. Locked in this airless, windowless cage, she was left without food or water for days. Then she was gang-raped to insure her compliance. Her world soon became a thin, gruesomely stained mattress, on which she serviced customers day after day, night after night. She was never allowed to refuse a customer or a sex act. Not surprisingly, Bibi soon fell ill. “I was having bad fevers,” she says, “but no matter how sick I was, I had to let customers to what they wanted.”

India now has more people living with HIV/AIDS than any country in the world. According to the latest UNAIDS statistics, the country has about four million infected adults and children. And that rate is doubling every 18 to 24 months, says I.S. Gilada, M.D., a leading Indian AIDS expert. Surveys show that 67 to 80 percent of India’s prostitutes are infected with HIV, and a third of those have AIDS.

Tragically, as the incidence of HIV in India rises, the average age of the indentured prostitutes declines. “Now, with HIV, most men prefer 10- to 12-year-old prostitutes,” says Vipula Kadri, founder of Save the Children India, “while a decade ago, they wanted more experienced girls.” Persistent myths in India hold that sex with young virgins not only restores a man’s virility, but also cures him of sexually transmitted diseases. Consequently, very young prostitutes, who are the most vulnerable to HIV because their vaginal and anal tissue is frequently torn, are worked the hardest, servicing up to 40 customers a day. They are also made to work when pregnant, often until a few days before delivery, or are back working within a week after they have abortions.

Kamla was pregnant and 22 when she was sold to a brothel three years ago. Like all the others, she was told she couldn’t leave until she had paid back her purchase price. “I didn’t want to work because I was pregnant, but the brothel manager told me I had no choice.” Almost immediately after Kamla gave birth, she was forced back to work. “I’m very frightened one of the clients will abuse my daughter,” she says. “I don’t want her to end up like me.”

Babies are placed under brothel beds and drugged with opium to make them sleep, so the clients won’t know they’re there.

Kamla’s fears are very real. The children of sex slaves are often inducted into the profession at an early age. “Customers view the children in brothels as bonuses,” says Priti Patkar, a social worker who co-founded Prerana, a volunteer agency that runs a night crèche for the children of prostitutes in India. “Kids are placed under the beds in the brothels because there is nowhere else for them to go. Babies are drugged with opium to make them sleep, so the clients won’t know they’re there. Not surprisingly, these children become second-generation prostitutes. In the brothels, girl babies are welcomed, because it’s cheaper to breed prostitutes than import them, whereas in normal Indian life, everyone wants to have boys.”

The night crèche, in the middle of the red-light district, gives kids a safe place to sleep, two meals a day and a bath. But because of limited funding, only 80 children can be cared for, and only those prostitutes who have paid off their purchase price are free to drop off their children for the night. In addition to the services the crèche provides, the Prerana staff also tries to empower prostitutes to use condoms. “But if Indian wives can’t get their husbands to use condoms,” ask Patkar, “how can sex slaves, who are totally powerless, get men use them?”

With the risk of infection so great, why do Indian men visit these brothels on a regular basis? Sunil, 27, who works in a travel agency, summed it up as he left a brothel on a Saturday afternoon: “I come here for my enjoyment. I like to visit different ones to experiment. The Nepalese girls are the best, because they strip totally naked, and I like their golden skin.” He says he always uses a condom, and adds that he’ll stop visiting brothels when he marries next year. “then I’ll have a wife, and I won’t need to.” But he insists his bride be a virgin, and sees no double standard in that. “Why” Because I’m a man, of course.”

“The police are involved up to the top levels, and they are making millions off these young girls.”

The number of vulnerable women who find themselves at the mercy of abusive customers, brothel managers and usurious loan sharks (who advance them money to buy food and water while they6’re in debt to the brothels) is increasing at an alarming rate, but the situation is routinely overlooked by those in positions to change it. In a recent UNICEF report on sex trafficking in Mumbai, the authors concluded: “Politicians are indifferent, and children are seen as commodities. It is rare, if at all, that traffickers and brothel owners are punished because politicians and public health officials are in league with the mafia that runs the lucrative flesh trade.

Re: # 182

tahmed,

.... i am not implying anything ...... as far as i am concerned it might have been a perfectly acceptable practice to marry a child-bride in those days; but don't you think we should expect better from our prophets ?

...... and as far your ballyhoo over bride burning in india is concerned, i don't think you will find a single horrible hindoo on this forum who defends this abominable practice like urstruly defends the practice of child-brides and paedophilia ...... actually, their shamefaced denial is further proof of the fact that they don't approve of this practice ....... that is the BIG differnce between the ummah and normal people .........

#196 Posted by tahmed32 on July 24, 2007 9:52:31 am


prophets are far from perfect.


Really...how about we put your beliefs to the test and see if they're in line with what allah's chosen people, the pakis, think...

If you carry a banner saying "the prophet Mohammad was an imperfect human being" in a public place in Pakiland, I'll pay for your return fare and I'll stop posting here..

deal?