Life Beyond Chores

in Talmud it is written...when jews became out of control..they started every bad habbit..drinking..adultry..killing pious people etc.... in most houses of Jerusalem.....drinking and adultery is taken as anormal daily life work.....whenchristianity came...it saw all this...it went to other exreme ......thier great saints 40 40 years did not see a woman...if someone's mother came to meet him..he turned his face...in deserts nf jungles they went..."rahbaniat"...tarq-e-dunya.....nuns and priest forbidden to marry....now this is also against the laws of Nature that men and women are for each other ..you cannot live without that...so the result was that in all chuches there is graveyard behind or below in a secret place where all infantschildren from nuns and priests were burried so that common people could not know about that !!!!!!!

she..poor wife is also human..she is not machine..she need rest..she need love from her children..she need affection of her husband...but nobody is satisfied ....all have thier own points..all have thier own comments.....

the children are unhappy...the husband is unhappy...the wife is "most" unhappy...but only one thing is happy......your purse....which is jingling with coins and pennies !!!!!!!!

what the use of this amount if you have no satisfaction and contetment of heart !!!!!!!!!!!!!

actually the children are psycho because their mother do not give time to them !!!!!

the husband is psycho because when he come after long working hours..wife is either absent due to job or so tired due to her job that she do not give attention to her husband...!!!!

the wife is herself psycho because when she come home.."most" of the cases she has to cook food...look after house hold works....take care of children.....and other thousands of things...she has to double work..first in 8 hours on office and then at home......

These husbands want that we should remain "dependant" on them through whole life .......

they want us to remain in home... press thier clothes..cook food.. produce childs ...and thats all.....

we have no life.......we have no "freedom"....we have no "independence".... we have no "rights"......

we are educated ..we are highly skilled ...but these husbands do not like that we should exercise these qualities in practical fields......

they like that we should be put behind "bars" in homes and never ever think of a "independence".......

these are the typical responses of my dear married sisters who want to show thier educational skills in action in their future life..for better living..for good standard of life ..... but """"""MOSTLY"""" for a jubilious feelings of "independence" ... ..yes we are independent..we never look upon our husbands for Rs......we have our own pays...we have our own "bank-leased" mehran and cultus...we never missed the latest shoes design of Stylo ....we time and again visit the Bareeze for latest chicken pieces...whenever we have a mood...we just place a order for KFC and Mirchi etc...for delicious hot chunky dinner on a cell call...yes we have money......we have our pay...we have our "own" earnings...we do not "depend" on our spouses...we are "free" ......etc etc....

but just wait for a minute.......

no one is restricting women in houses..but the most important institution of child begins at house... he learns from mother..he or she idealized her.. the roots of a child developed there...the blue print of this this impact remains on his nuerons for the rest of his whole life... but unfortunately ..in "modern" times..we have broken this greatest "institution" at home... mothers are eager to test thier qualities of education in a practical field.. fathers are are too outside home...and the next generation..which have to pillar the future of country .. now in hands of "aya" or some maid servant...thus shattering the whole concept of lap of mother is child's first school.....we have lost this school which is even better than Berkeley or Harvard or Stanford......!!!!!!!!!!!!