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The Psychology of Mothering

Khalid Sohail April 13, 2008

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#63 Posted by Charlie on April 15, 2008 4:20:01 pm
Re: # 60 VRV, My post supposed to be a compliment to Indian achievements.... even without right tools... Don't take it to heart.. :)

Dr Sahib, I live in Thornhill, north of Toronto... Let's have lunch/dinner... Tahmed chacha also lives in Toronto... We might also invite him...
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#62 Posted by anil on April 15, 2008 4:19:34 pm
Re: # 59

Hamidm Sahib:

".... one of the main reasons poor people have more children is because for them it is a matter of survival ....."

Do you think Massaddi Mians of the world taught them the economics of getting of poverty? They must learn capitalism from that Charbriwala in Gujranwala. That chabriwala knows how much can be sold and how many mouths can be fed. Labor no doubt is one factor in economic equation, but religion can certainly not be the second factor. Unless Massaddi Mians use it as opium for the masses.

Massaddi Mians do not Ph.D.s from U.S. of A.. A chabri and fruits are all that are needed. For that matter Lal Masjids can be there, what is taught there is more important.

Don't you think?
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#61 Posted by VRV on April 15, 2008 3:17:54 pm
snake gourd i/o snakeguard
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#60 Posted by VRV on April 15, 2008 3:04:59 pm
#57 Posted by Charlie on April 15, 2008 9:53:31 am

I dont know how large & lengthy is urs........but IF it's so then Pakistan shud have become a superpower by now.

I give u an idea to elongate ur willy.

Tie a stone with dori and tie it to ur willy so that it wud grow in length and be elongated like a snakeguard (it's how snakeguards are elongated). Ur willy thus wud look like a third leg & that wud make ur country a superpower.


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#59 Posted by hamidm2 on April 15, 2008 2:53:52 pm
Re: # 55

tahmed mian,

.... one of the main reasons poor people have more children is because for them it is a matter of survival ..... for them a child is another pair of hands that can be put to work by the time he or she turns seven or eight and earn 1000 rupees a month as a domestic servant (plus roti and kapra) ......... or a kid can make 50-100 rupees a day if they becomes a scavenger picking up paper, rags and metal from garbage dumps - and if they are lucky they can also salvage a half eaten apple or mango thrown out by civil society ...... most day laborers still make less than 150 a day (if they can find work) which does not bring in enough to rent even one kutcha room in a pindi slum ...... in order to afford a roof over their heads and two meals a day, you have to have at least four or five people working ten hours a day ........ on top of that, when a man goes home after a hard day of digging ditches or carrying concrete or bricks up three storeys and there is no tv, his only entertainment is sex ....... that is why i think the government should provide a 40 inch plasma tv to every member of the unwashed and uncivil society .........
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#58 Posted by drsohail on April 15, 2008 10:46:26 am
Re: # 57
dear charlie..if you live in toronto then we can meet...i live and work 30 kilometers east in a small town of whitby...sincerely sohail
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#57 Posted by Charlie on April 15, 2008 9:53:31 am
Because of over-reproduction, even with mediocre education and less than normal penis sizes, India and China are going to become recognized global powers.

On the other hand, "quantity vs. quality" oriented westereners have already starting losing their influence because they want to succeed individually by stop reproducing. Because of that westerners have to import "lower quality overly-produced" immigrants who will ultimately cause goras to become visible minorities in near future.

Look at Toronto, I have been here for ages and I have yet to see a single gora.... :)
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#56 Posted by aslam644 on April 15, 2008 8:42:43 am
Re: # 55
i agree with a lot of what you said, but the pendulam has swong the other way in the west some women are choosing not to have children at all.
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#55 Posted by tahmed32 on April 15, 2008 8:28:46 am
#54 Aslam bhai: actually it is not just western women - even in Pakistan women who are better educated have fewer children than jahil women. I know of people in Pakistan who literally told their domestic servants to stop producing kids every year, and only then did the stop producing. One man had produced 8 kids in 10 years of marriage before being told to stop of look elsewhere for a job and living space for his extended family. Another produced 4 in 4 years of marriage until being told to decide between more kids and his free accomodations.

Nor is it poor women who are the problem - it is the men. My brother worked a bit in Pakistani hospitals after graduation and used to tell me how women from poor families would come by secretly from their husbands asking for ways to stop the bastards from pushing more kids into her.

Bengalis used to be notorious in the 1960's for their high fertility rates - and yet, once women were empowered and educated due to microcredit, there was a sharp drip in fertility rates so it became lower than that of Pakistan.

So, I hope immigrants to UK would do themselves and the world a favor by picking up the good habits of europeans and ending the crap that they escaped from in the first place.
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#54 Posted by aslam644 on April 15, 2008 8:14:32 am
It seems quite a lot of western women have turned their back on mothering in favour of careers and sex and the city lifestyle, the consequence of which are declining populations which leads to immigration, which in turn leads to social tensions and xenophobia, islamophobia.
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#53 Posted by tahmed32 on April 15, 2008 8:01:02 am
#52 g'nite, Comrade Masadi. Make sure to finish your milk before going to sleep. And make sure the milk is direct from Comrade Cows, not mixed with Ginseng by the Evil Elite...
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#49 Posted by tahmed32 on April 15, 2008 7:30:52 am
#48 masadi: i thought you had said "g'nite" hours ago!! cant sleep?? must be another side affect of the Ginseng that the Evil Elite added to your formula mil,
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