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He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not...

Amber Bokhari February 10, 2009

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#11 Posted by parthaab on February 16, 2009 4:12:13 pm


Re: # 10

Sunil,

It may come as a surprise to you, and many more, but MOST males in the USA in 2008, particularly in a few states, are scared of marriage. You can search for stats, IF you want to find out.

WAKE UP, MALES! SPEAK UP!


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#10 Posted by sunil7090 on February 16, 2009 3:42:01 pm
Re: # 9 parthaab,your philosophy may be good for you,but such a thing can not be applied collectively,so do not expect many to follow you
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#9 Posted by parthaab on February 16, 2009 6:16:52 am

Keep loving;
keep dreaming;
keep wishing;
keep the jaddis;
keep on pubbing;
even keep sleeping!

BUT

Just say NO to marriage!
WAKE UP MALES! SPEAK UP!

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#8 Posted by jrabamind on February 16, 2009 5:45:06 am
Dear Amber,
A great piece in the traditions of “Heer-Ranjha�.

One of the qualities of a good writer is to make the reader identify with what has been written.

I am sure all of those who have read and thought about this lovely piece will feel that there is some such ideal love which was never realized, somewhere in their past.

Keep writing and following your calling as a person and a poet, a doctor and a human.

But beware..if you keep writing so beautifully..We will all fall in love with you…

Prashant
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#7 Posted by Abee on February 15, 2009 10:55:17 pm
Re: # 3
Thanks Tehmina. I'm glad ypou enjoyed it.
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#6 Posted by Abee on February 15, 2009 10:47:39 pm
Re: # 2

Dear Sunil,
I often remember the line from "Heer Ranjha" keh Ranjha Ranjha kardey khud Ranjha hoi".....i guess love is all about thinking incessantly about someone or something and our Universe revolving around that pivotal point. Its not at all practical. So cannot survive doing that in business or politics. I guess the thinking process when shared sounds more premeditated and callous when actually its an innocent confusion where we are trying to find sane and rational reasons for a simple whim of our hearts. More often than i'd like to admit, my heart chooses the wrong people, and the head part cannot justify this sheer stupidity! people don't write about these things and i like to venture in these dark waters and discover the true colors of feelings. That is my calling as a person and poet.

Thanks for sharing. I appreciate the time you take to help me think and write better.

tc
A
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#5 Posted by Abee on February 15, 2009 10:39:34 pm
Re: # 1
Tolkin... kash chor saktey! mager na rakkha jaata hai aur na chora jaata hai. Saari mushkil yehi hai! Koi asaan hal ho to batain. I always say, "The heart is a poor companion of the mind" and unfortunately i'm half and half. My poet side is heart first and doctor one is head first. trust me its a crazy combination! One of the first questions i'll ask God will be, "What were you thinking?"
hehe
Thanks for reading!
tc
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#4 Posted by guru on February 15, 2009 11:01:24 am
Belated Vallentine gift for our Baki brothers and sisters:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwK4RoOLc1I

http://www.youtube.com /watch?v=obh0CATRN8s&feature=related

Go to the 7:30 min in the second video.
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#3 Posted by TehminaTanveer on February 15, 2009 8:25:46 am
wow.just wow.
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#2 Posted by sunil7090 on February 15, 2009 4:18:47 am
So much of thinking, doubting,reassuring,cajoling may be counterproductive in love.however these are good traits in politics and business
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#1 Posted by TOLKININ on February 15, 2009 2:49:56 am
Abee Yaar Choro yeh Ishq Wishq ....Janoo bas itna jano tujhe Apna Manoon re
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