Happy Effing VD to you too!

I liked the article. a free spirit, trashing the conformist boxed-in mantra of gender, love, sex for desi gals. Brilliant!!!

Padash, why do u care what's chechen. That wasn't the point of my entry. The point i was asking is what do u want. Perpetrate the unending cycle of meaningless relationships resulting in broken hearts. Is u goal sexual experience before u end up paki man, basically what are u doing, woman. I was trying to find out what's the point of u sexual escalades. Search for love, marriage or just fuck.

Nb,

if u are paki, does it mean that u knowledge should be JUST LIMITED to pakistan. What kind of moron are u then? U live in a world, full of different nationalities, cultures and people, u gotta know them, right.

This kind of ignorance and arrogance AMAZES me.

If you're a Chechen, how do you know so much about Pakistan?

Im still confused...what in the world is a damn Chechen? Whats entertaining is hearing you talk about marrying a Chechen-eese! Go on your bad, Chechen self girl! ;)

Padash, honey WHO did me wrong?

Why are you a bunch of assuming morons. Don't u see the logic in what i said.
You (padash) go around and as you said (fuck) whoever u meet knowing that there is not a chance to marry them. Okay that's FINE. I am not a judge of u morals but what's ENTERTAINING in getting FUCKED by a different man every time.

I assume u are pass 20 years old and i am not getting u point. U looking for love, for relationship, for marriage, what's the point of THOSE relationships?

And everybody here is cheering u up, yet if u were in pakistan and did something like that in open everybody would call you a whore. What are those double standards?

you people come to America and call yourself americanized when in reality you are not and that would be fine, but WHY to pretend to be an american when inside you are still pakistani.

i am chechen and proud to be one but i don't go around sleeping with men, knowing that i will end up marrying a chechen guy. i am honest in whatever relationships i have and NOBODY, i repeat NOBODY who was involved with me ever had a broken heart.

Now if u come here to experiment with u lust/sex or whatever else desires that are prohibited back in pakistan with a thought that eventually you will revert to whatever cultural conditions u had back home than DO NOT CLAIM to be nothing but PAKISTANIS.

Again, this kind of hypocritical confusion leaves bad reputation, broken hearts and a bitter taste of betrayal in the hearts and minds of people who take u seriously.

Grow up.

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Why Thank you UltimateTruth. I couldnt have said it better myself ;)
kisses

hey u started ultimatetruth...

so u like to pop out kids with u own kind and yet fuck anybody else...
is this a new sort of racism?
there is another thing, how and why did u assume that i fucked pakistani men? is this u imagination or again we are getting personal here...
i stated in my previous message that i had girlfriends who dated pakistani men who always ended up marrying a girl from pakistan, thus breaking the hearts of my american girlfriends and screwing lives of their paki wives (is this right? if u say yes, u are a bigger idiot than i originally thought)

and again, there are so much assumptions in u message that it blows my mind...
so here u go, u are a moron and an idiot and u suggestion to paki men and women to fuck everybody else but pop up kids only with of their culture is moronic, stupid and racist...

and yes, i am AGAINST this paki girl fucking ppl left and right, breaking their hearts if she does so dishonestly without telling them that she has no serious intentions...
because of fuckers like that this broken heart cycle never stops and ppl become hurt, cynical and mistrustful.

Miss dinastrange you should, stop generalizing people. Love is a different concept for every one. Yes i find lust more intriguing then love. And love more fulfilling then lust. Love for lust or lust for love?
And stop dating pakistani men. Date your own kind for we like to pop kids out with our kind.
And if you date stop expecting that he will get a ring and make you happy.
Excellent work Padash.
Don't listen to moronic mullah diatribe.
Chowk needs more like you.

Sometimes i think is life actually so boring nowadays that the only exciting thing we can share is how many night stands we had and how entertaining they were. Isn't it a bit pathetic?

You know, i disagree with you. We can just all can go around and fuck people left and right and then talk about broken hearts. You do not have an intention of a serious relationship, you just want to sleep and move on. So then why are u talking about broken hearts. If the intention is to get laid, then it's fine u just sleep with people but then again don't meantion hearts.

And please don't put Andy Warhol, generally i am tired of ppl using talented people's words to justify their own fuck ups. Also, i am not sure how broken hearts make us stronger. They make us BITTER and more cynical but not stronger. Again, i am not judging you and i didn't call you a whore, i had my share of those nights but looking for love like that is a bit unrealistic, don't u think?

ps adityapant: I did get TOTALLY lucky that night. It was nice. Dinastrange, close your ears. JK sweetie. I like you!

adityapant: Thanks sweetie. So glad you liked it. Your encouragement means a lot ;)

DinaStrange: You are right. whore, slut, heartbreaker, stud, player. Its all just the same isnt it. If I am a whore, I sure am an overqualified yet underpaid whore. Anyway, my columns are all about honesty so yes I dont live a perfect life. I just share it. By no means do i preface what i write by saying its right or its wrong. as far as im concerned, im just writing about what i do. If Paki guys can do it and they are wrong, im just a Paki girl doing the same thing and maybe im wrong too. but hey...we cant help but break hearts or prevent our own from being broken. Its just the way it works baby. As Andy Warhol once said "love with your eyes closed". I say "God damn I wish I could keep mine open but I cant." One thing we all have in common with each other no matter what race, nationality, gender, income...is a broken heart. Think of it as a rite of passage that makes us stronger. Kisses.

You sound like a whore. Don't take an offense since what you are doing men do all the time but i guess for a Muslim girl or Pakistani girl, you sound like a very lonely and unhappy whorish girl.

There is another thing that confuses me. If you have no intention of marrying a white man, why do u keep on dating them. And this is why it bothers me. I met lots of paki guys who go around and basically fuck white girls but then end up marrying a paki girl. But you guys break other ppl's hearts and its irresponsible, some of my best girl friends got heart broken that way.

Anyway, wish u happiness.

Had me in splits ....hope you got lucky that night :)

On a serious note...please keep writing. We need more of this sort on Chowk!