Love and Hate Online

Lubna and Zehra,

You`re both wrong. Shehnaaz Sheikh got into Javed Sheikh`s car and demanded he take her somewhere, to a hospital or interview, I forget which. She meets Shakeel for the first time, when she bumps into him and mixes up the papers.

No wait, she did get into Shakeel`s car and demand he take her to the hospital at the beginning of the drama.

OKKKKKKKk now this is really starting to bug me.

Damn! Look what you two started?

Well, I know for sure, this scene wasn`t in Dhoop Kinaray or Tanhaiyan.

And this scene was copied in some Indian Salman Khan movie.

Temporal re:27

So the answer is at my fingertips, eh? :-)

(lucky I`m in a cheerful mood.. )

Cheers, AK

Assad_K #35:

[....finger tips...(lucky I`m in a cheerful mood.. )....]


----chuckle----grunt-----sigh-----smile

Yaar buhat badmaash hotay ja rahay ho. Shshshs,
hum nay tou buhat saray logouN say suna thaa kay andhay ho jao gay agar waisi hurkataiN jaari rakho gay.

Suna hay hadeesaiN bhee haiN.

Aur yeh bhee suna hay kay baaz baRRay aalimouN nay yeh bhee fatwa diya hay kay `oos` say roza bhee nahiN toot ta.

Two words that describe what I alluded to and what you did: harmless and harmful! Not really ;)

Darn -- what am I discussing such things this early?

...wallah aalam...

khair andesh

t

t #27:

oopsh... but i tot it wuz cunfession time! :(

since i didn`t have any romantic tales to tell, i thought i`d talk about myself and why i like the net......... :( ............ is alia still there?

On a serious note though, I agree with you and tahmed about the two-dimensional nature of interaction on the net. I haven`t come across many netizens, (I`m talking about the net in general), who`re dynamic in their interacts. Yes, there are barriers: you can`t really express the tone of your voice, can`t use facial expressions, other body signals to emphasize you points. And yes, like you said, there are ways to overcome them: emoticons can be used, other keyboard characters can be used. I tend to use my hands and facial expressions A LOT when I`m speaking. The only alternative to this I can think of when typing or writing are consecutive ! and/or ?

Your point about the level of comfort with the language being a concern is valid but then not everyone might be fluent in the language being used.

[Most posters comes across as wooden --- aloof --- mechanical --- definitely not hu(wo)man.

Where is passion? Where is zest? Where are feelings I can almost hear (Ralph Waldo) Emerson asking?]

I think part of the reason for this might be fear - fear of rejection, fear of revealing too much about yourself, fear of what other interactors might think about you, fear of sounding foolish, etc. On the internet interactors will judge you on your terms - it`s up to you what image you project of yourself. Many people probably shy away for fear of the consequences. They`re cautious about what they say. I`m not saying this is wrong - but too often the interactions come across as being impassive and detached.

Zehra, scout:

I still think it was Ankahi. It was in the first episode I think. Remember how she continues to talk non-stop throughout the ride? Remember the yellow sportscar? She needs to get her brother`s mediacl reports from home I think and doesn`t have enough time.

[i thought it was the nurse getting into the doctors car...that hot older man...his name was with an r..i cant recall now..the drama with `kabacha` in it.]

The drama with Kabacha was Tanhayian (no doctor there). The drama with the ``hot`` doctor :) was Dhoop Kinarey and his name was Rahat Kazmi (how could you forget HIM?).

[ankahee had the hero/heroine accident intro when she dropped her file and their papers got mixed together..]

That came afterwards - 2nd or 3rd episode I think.

Feel like watching them again... :)

Re: scout

``One retard opened my CD drive and casually wrote on my screen, ``here`s a cup holder.`` ``

Hahaha. I haven`t laughed so hard all week. Freaks.

Naive and gullible freaks who ``fall in love on the Internet`` deserve what they have coming their way. It`s usually the suckers who have social problems to begin with who go looking for relationships on the net.

Behind the internet`s veil, krashid could really be a cranky little girl, scout a WWF wrestler, temporal a beach bum from California, and I a bored grandma.

hi zee !!

yeah great article once again ...

the best thing about net is that here u can erally be what u are .... or be what u really are but can`t be in real life .... and then u find ppl exactly like you ... silly ... romantic ...progressive ... hopefull ... senstive ....

so best thing net gave us is comunication to share our thoughts or argued with them in broad aspects ..

and there is no rule one can or cannot fell in love on net !!

dont need to tell my story cause i know every one have one of there own !!!

zee do u have any of urz too ??

:o)

p.s zehra and scout : it is `Ankahi` drama ur talking about ....

Temporal re:36

I was going to write a long and witty reply, but my vision is beginning to blur.. so I`ll put it on hold. Hmmm... getting awfully dark around here..

Cheers, AK!

temporal #36 suna hai sar bhi ganja ho jata hai.

RSaxena #40:

[Behind the internet`s veil, krashid could really be a cranky little girl, scout a WWF wrestler, temporal a beach bum from California, and I a bored grandma.]

---Truth is guaranteed-- to use the creaking cliché ---stranger than fiction. Of the adjectives you used I can personally vouch for the near accuracy for two --- Scout is a sort of ‘wrestler’ of the fairy-tooth kind and am a bum of sorts. As for the other two -- no, I won’t hazard a guess --- or two I guess --- come on folks --- confession time----:)

tahmed321 #37:

[... suna hai sar bhi ganja ho jata hai.]

---- yaar pata nahiN kis duniya maiN rehtay haiN hum. So the hair too? That explains.

Moucho gracias brother tahmed321. All of a sudden the Quantum Theory of ‘that’ has fallen into place. As I look at the reflection I see reading glasses and thinning hair and ................. H E L P! ;)

rgds,

t

Awakening Hopeful #28:

CONFUSED and CONFUSING CONFUSIONS

[Aaray bhai, kuoon borah mantay ho.
Kabi kabi insaan ko cheekhnah be thow partha hai.
May agar cheekh para to koi bari baath nahi
... aasmaan thow nahe toot para!]


Mas’ala yeh hay pyaray bhai ya pyari behan kay aap nay ‘cheekh para’ likh kar humain tazabzoob maiN dal dia hay. (Used to have a Hyderabadi friend in pre-M. She consistently spoke of ‘main kaam kara raha hooN, maiN naha raha hooN, main paRRh raha hooN!)

Don’t know how, but I sort of gathered from other interactions that you are a female.

On a certain level it does not matter. Who says we cannot be gender-free and anonymous at the same time in this medium.

Laikin ab humaray liyay is baat ka taiy’yum buhat zaroori ho gaya hay. Go kay ziyadah tur hum hadd maiN rehtay haiN, laikin kabhi kabhi srif zaiqaa bad’l lainay kay liyay hum bay-adub bhi ho jaatay haiN. Laikin is`kay ba’wajood hum sinf-e-naazouk say phir bhee hud maiN reh kar baat karna chahtay haiN. Bus, bachchpun ki paRRi hu’ie ik boori aadat samajh lijiyay.

Confused, but hopefully not confusing,

aap ka

temporal

Rsaxena # 40

Thats the funniest post I ever read :)))

Re: temporal

Actually, I chose those adjectives carefully :)

Bored Grandma #40,

``Behind the internet`s veil, krashid could really be a cranky little girl,

scout a WWF wrestler, temporal a beach bum from California, and I a bored grandma.``

Holy Cow!! How`d you find that out? ;)

They call me Red Lightning.

t_bhai,

I`ve collected two garbage bags of soda cans for you.

Rsaxena #40, ``It`s usually the suckers who have social problems to begin with who go looking for relationships on the net.``

Do you speak from experience?

Sorry, couldn`t help it. :)

In reply to #: 40 RSaxena

Greetings! - Don`t you think you are being a bit too harsh? Sadly, some folks have this terrible idea about meeting online, others like myself, see online and offline meetings with both, plus and minus points. Heck, life does not come with guarantees! Can you say with assurance that meeting someone offline in the physical world is going to turn out better? Nah, I think not.

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