Teasing or Torture?

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I have a monotrack mind or you, who can`t find his nose without asking for help from those dimwitted arabs? you solve street harassment of women by locking up young girls inside men`s houses and pushing them back by 1400 years?

Thank you, Bina. I believe it is very important to make public all this information which is otherwise repressed in the name of modesty. I too have heard horror stories of the way female classmates are treated when they go out shopping.

Great write up. Reminded me of my eve-teasing days.......aaahh those were they days (sigh).

On a serious note, I think too much of everything is bad, especially when it treads into the boundries of psychosis but to be honest with you if boys stop eve-teasing girls, the girls will suffer more from the psychological problems. As a matter of fact the less eve-teased girls usually develope inferiority complex about their breasts etc. and they resort to adam-teasing to get the attention they want........ahhhh the adam-teasing (sigh)...that reminded me of the days when I used to be subjected to adam-teasing from the ``frustrated`` girls (sigh).....aaahh those were the days...(sigh)

`` yaad-e-maazi azab hai ya rab
cheen lay mujh say hafiza mera``

and does anyone remembers Ghalib`s

``chair khoobaaN say chali jaaye Assad.......

or that of Mir Taqi Mir

``Itnay say qad peh qayyamat shareer ho.....


hmmmmm eve teasing (Its a Homer-ish hmmmmm)

#18 by Ashok

{My example of truely islamic culture if practiced as in Saudie etc where marriage age is lower & compulsory is ANOTHER ways of achieving civil behaviour .Go in any Arab country u wont see badtameeze like Delhi ,Kanpur Kanpur }

the Gulf countries are totally diffrent from INDIA, PAKISTAN,,,,,their economy, systems, population are totllay diffrent from our society. If we follow the practice of early marriages someone like Bina Shah will write about it by saying that women forced to early marriages and its been opposed severl time on the pages of Chowk and other forums. Other factor is economy....normally no male get financial stability to afford marriage in our society before the age of 25.

What I find interesting how low-class, cheap behaviour (harassment of women on the street) is referred by some Pakistani reporting on such cases in english newspapers by the pompous cliche ``eve teasing``. I am waiting for the day when they learn to speak straight, and refer to such incidents ``harassment of women on the street``, or even (in case it goes beyond passing remarks and involves physical contact) ``physical assault``?
PS: If it helps make you feel better, sometimes these lowlife get theirs: I know one fellow who used his dog chain to bring down from their motorbike and a couple of such lowlife who were bothering his sister as she went out for a walk.

#13 by AmericanExpress

{Unfortunately for fantisizer ,Madhuri is pregnant}

Amex

whats wrong with fantsizing a pregnent woman....i think thts make her more hot & suxy......:)

i think Urstruly has a good point and i hope some female here having decent size of breast can eloborate the inside feeling .....
....gils really want a guy to cros by looking down and without checking her figures?

and when boys are stocking them how much superiority they feel?

I remember once `` Faryal Gauhar`` said `` i liked when ppl flurt with me, they ask unappropriate questions, this make me feel important``.

``You get the mental image of boys in the playground, pulling girls’ braids, or throwing frogs at them in an attempt to make them scream with fright...``

heLL noooo!!!!!!!! when you`ve lived in karachi for 23 years, learnt the art of dodging idle hands that conveniently find a place on your butt or your boobs, slapped men for rubbing their privates with feverish delight every time they see something that looks remotely like a woman....Eve-teasing DOES NOT conjure an image that resembles the braid-pulling episode that you mentioned

rgds,
samina

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Urstruly (#22)

Actually what happens is that women/girls get prepared in the morning to blow the minds of Richard Gere type MEN. And they end up uninetentionally seducing bus conductors and uncouth hourly laborers. I am sure all women enjoy being given attention by attractive men, and even more.

Think of a society where most men r gays, and most women r staright. What would happen then?

Some poet (who committed suicide---dont know his name), has said:

`jab hum he na rahay to sahab
tum bad-e-saba kehlao to kia?`

(when we r longer there---what if u r the morning sypher(or beauty queen)?`

Also reminds me of some famale french PM, who has made some controversial remarks about London. She said most women do not take notice of a scantily clad woman passing by (implying most men r homo)

AAmir (27)

Well, once i used to have long hair and keep a pony tail. I thought it was quite OK, but then i observed men leering at me while overtaking my car from behind. After seeing my rugged face and big moustache, the disappointment on their face overlapping the dwindling excitement was quite something to watch :)

well, of course the usual suspects don`t seem to be taking this a whole lot seriously.
And there is a big difference between FLIRTING, and guys chasing you, grabbing your breasts, and your ass, and trying to pull off your dupatta, which results in your falling and being dragged across the ground. And some of you `men` are going to tell me that women like this kind of attention???

nawaid #95 you write ``and i hope some female here having decent size of breast can eloborate the inside feeling ``
On the other hand, if you or urstruly have a decent size bottom, perhaps you could experience the inside feeling of being groped by visiting certain parts of pakistan. If you have not already enjoyed that experience. Alternatively, try it out on your mom, and ask her for her inside feelings.
:-)

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The learing is the staple diet of the frustrated Paki male. Standing in high noon at apwa college just to have a peek on chadar laden girls is the most silly and pathetic sight. But in the society where women are cheapen as personal property and no venue to vent those frustration, this is the end result. I agree with the other poster this is least of the problems when there are more shameful crimes are commited.

BTW why there is so much fascination with sex when the end result is liquid mess.