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What time is it? Marriage time

Teju Prasad October 20, 2003

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#9 Posted by fountainheader on October 21, 2003 9:43:15 pm
``One correction here. Hindsism is not the oldest religion in the world. The oldest religion in the world is Islam which dates back to Adam (peace be upon him), the first human.``

This guy always sounds like he is straight out of George Orwell`s 1984. He actually believes in all the tripe he spews out. Fodder for dictatorship, such people.
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#8 Posted by Inquirer on October 21, 2003 11:46:25 am
The purposes of marriage are as follows:
(i) The society and an accustomed way of life has to be preserved.
(ii) The individual sexual urges have to be satisfied.
(iii) Individuals have to learn and teach the habits of taking care of some one other than oneself.
(iv) The need to feel important has to be satisfied.
(v) Feeling of loneliness that is generated by accumulating experience that one day everyone must die has to be alleviated.
(vi) A technique to survive the longest possible time has to be used.

Consistent work to achieve above aims has made humanity the most influential species on the earth.

All this is OK if the system which includes marriage allows for self-fulfilment in addition to the above aims.

Hindus have behaved somewhat differently from others in regard to marriage stability largely because of the laws that have obtained in India. As the laws and expectations from the protections therefrom change, combined with the overpopulation of earth by humans, the emphasis on marriage will change. The evolved path does depend on massive wars and other events like an asteroid strike.

The sharing of common human goals across the globe will make people in different lands similar to each other.

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#7 Posted by ironman on October 21, 2003 10:36:44 am
Urstruly,

``The oldest religion in the world is Islam which dates back to Adam (peace be upon him), the first human.``

Very true.

Adam was Allah`s `first-cut` human design!!
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#6 Posted by soundmeister on October 21, 2003 8:49:35 am
Urstruly you have made my day
that was really funny!!!

Article is a but ponderous. Urstruly is funnier...
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#5 Posted by Urstruly on October 21, 2003 8:23:06 am
One correction here. Hindsism is not the oldest religion in the world. The oldest religion in the world is Islam which dates back to Adam (peace be upon him), the first human.
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#4 Posted by temporal on October 21, 2003 7:01:24 am


with apology for this digression:

bina shah has posted this on unplugged and this needs wider exposure...it is an online petition against the stifling stranglehold of the Hudood Ordinances...please go to this site and if in agreement make your thoughts known
by signing up...a drop at a time makes the bucket full...

...t
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#3 Posted by Fosa on October 20, 2003 5:34:17 pm
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#2 Posted by ahmedmadani on October 20, 2003 5:34:16 pm
Two poetic quotations about wife and marriage

homemaker, lover, companion and friend ( Kalidas`s play character talking about his wife)

`` now you are wife and husband for life like sky and earth forever , this is the beginning of journey but there is no end, let gods help you on this great joyful sorrowful journey`` (Marriage hymns of hindus: ref. book Culture of India by French Author )

( I read this poetic reciation meaning and spirit beautifully worded: agree not much related to article, neither I am against Divorce if needed)
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#1 Posted by kaurasach on October 20, 2003 3:25:11 pm
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