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Indifference and Difference

Subhajit Ghosh October 29, 2003

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#5 Posted by durman.tk on November 16, 2003 5:06:32 am
It is so odd....that people, often young believe that if they spend some time with a girl they ought to be in love with them, and expect the latter to be engulfed in his thoughts as well. I think our society should lessen this paradox and see people not as an object of mating, but to seek grounds of friendship and understanding......the writer however lives in the fanatasy land of the cultural assumes
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#4 Posted by duke on October 30, 2003 7:32:30 am
mr subhatit
its nothing but an idea in fact nothing lies there when two alone visited too many places . defenitly both were having friends ,and when both ignored their friends to accompany them
and went alone this was having crustal clear love effections from both side . so they wanted to have all the time for each other . age factor can not stop some one to fall in love .
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#3 Posted by ghosh_subhajit on October 30, 2003 4:44:15 am
Nazar

I guess we can look at it this way....even though they moved around in the hill stations they could have been surrounded by relatives and friends especially the girl`s Mom and denied privacy for intimacy to flower....

SG
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#2 Posted by nazarhayatkhan on October 29, 2003 11:58:08 pm

Ghosh - good story but just a comment:

With all those lonely trips togather in the hill stations and staying togather, were there any confusions still left about the relationship?

Human behiour is quite natural & predictable. There is something not fitting in here!
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#1 Posted by estsanatlehi7 on October 29, 2003 7:00:31 pm
finallllllllyyyy....atleast he got some positive response..:) i thought hed end up being a ``kunwara baap``..
what i really feel is friends could make real good lovers..life gets easier if ur comfy w/ the person u wanna spend the rest of ur life with...
i wish there was some way people stopped taking the age thing sooo much to their heart...i mean wat diff does it make of whoz older in a relationship..doesnt make u any wiser...people shud b compatible..not their age...:)
regards.
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