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Am I Insane?

Emma Nisa March 4, 2005

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#3 Posted by amit on March 4, 2005 10:27:40 am
Emma,

It seems like your life is full of immature people who do not care for you. Your husband is totally immature about how to deal with a real woman, as he visits Amsterdam and other places for questionable activities. Your brother also seems to be very immature in that he is willing to leave his wife just because your marriage did not work out. In a way your brother is forcing you to remain trapped in a loveless marriage where there is risk to your health and life, especially if he is visiting prostitutes in Amsterdam.

I suggest that it is high time that you forget about everyone else and just think about what is good for you. You should get out of this mess and face whatever consequences that results in.
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#7 Posted by paindupastry on March 4, 2005 10:40:29 am
Re: # 3

Her brother will have to leave his marriage as his wife is the sister of Emma`s husband. If she breaks her ties with her husband in the present circumstances his brothers marriage is in jeapordy anyways. I think its wrong to blame her brother for anything.

She should divroce this guy though. He isn`t worth it.
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#8 Posted by vivek on March 4, 2005 11:18:18 am
paindupastry #7,
I am just curious to know, how is her brother`s marraige affected by Emma`s marraige? Do you mean to say her brother`s wife would leave her brother if Emma`s leaves her husband?
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#2 Posted by paindupastry on March 4, 2005 10:24:39 am
emma,
u seem to be in quite the dilemma. my advice is u shud leave him. if all what u describe of him is true, i would not trust him. whether it ends up breaking ur brothers marriage is irrelevant. u cannot and should not continue living in the conditions. good luck and may god be with u.
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#1 Posted by temporal on March 4, 2005 10:03:40 am
emma:

a quick welcome and cyber hugs!

more later....you may be agitated and confused and things may have improved or gotten worse...hopefully in the ensuing discussion you will find something helpful...am in a rush...more later

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