Bassima Dandan,member of the Board of Directors for the Islamic
Association of North Texas, lectured Tuesday during the Muslim Student
Association conference about the role of women in Islam.
Association of North Texas, lectured Tuesday during the Muslim Student
Association conference about the role of women in Islam.
Islam women speak of their role in society
TONY GUTIERREZ
Intern
march 30, 2005
The Muslim Student Association hosted a conference Tuesday about the role of women in Islam.
Bassima Dandan, a member of the Board of Directors for the Islamic Association of North Texas, presented the lecture.
Dandan began the lecture by praying and asking God to guide her
in what she was about to say. She said the media presents a different
view of Muslim women than history.
``Historically, we find how Islam changed the status of women when it was founded,`` Dandan said.
Before Islam, it was a common practice in the Middle East to bury infant girls alive.
According to Dandan, this was because social belief of the time said girls brought shame to the family.
``Islam came to give them position, to give them equality,``
Dandan said. ``If a society does not allow women to participate, that
society goes backwards.``
Dandan said it is just as honorable for a woman to stay home
and nurture her children as it is for her to work. She also said there
is no dishonor for a woman to work so long as she is productive to
society.
``I`ve been working full-time since before my fourth child was
born,`` Dandan said. ``If I don`t put my time to good use, it`s going to
be filled with what`s bad.``
Although Islam encourages marriage, it allows for women to stay
home and care for their parents. Islam does not allow for women to live
alone. If they are not married, they should live with a male relative
for protection.
``She is loved, she is honored and protected, more so than a
boy,`` Dandan said. ``She has a right to be educated, and at the right
age, she can choose a mate. She may listen to other people because they
may have more interaction with the suitor, but the final decision is
hers.``
Dandan also explained the loose covering that Muslim women
wear. A woman wears a hijab, or head covering when she becomes of age
so she does not show any part of her body except her face and hands as
a sign of chastity. She is allowed to remove this covering when in the
presence of anybody she cannot marry (family members, in-laws, or other
women).
Men must also observe modesty and cover the area between the
navel and the knees. Men and women who are not related lower their gaze
when talking to each other to prevent temptations.
``A lot of things we see in the media is not a true picture of
what Islam is in general or Muslim women in particular,`` Dandan said.
``There are cultural beliefs or practices that happen in a country that
are not of what Islam says.``
The association hosted the conference to clear misconceptions and stereotypes about Islam.
``A lot of people had questions about the head cover,`` said
Denton senior Rabeya Bashri, vice president for the association.
``People think it`s a sign of oppression, but the way we see it, it`s a
symbol of freedom. Nobody forced me to wear it. I chose to wear it.``
At the end of her lecture, Dandan said that everything from Islam is to help people reach Paradise.
``Our ultimate goal is to reach the Heavens,`` Dandan said. ``It`s
so different from what we as human beings feel here on Earth. There are
rivers of honey, milk and water. It is what I believe, and I share it
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