A Journey Through Our Conscience

Hello chusni/echoboom

tea?

Urstruly:191

Amrita is right about the phrase: it should have been ``lying through their teeth
I missed that too in my ``edit`` posst.

`` KyooN mdh-e mehv-e khoob-i-yay taigh-e adaa naa thhay``--Faiz


It is a sickness to obsess & pine for the opposite sex. The advertising industry hass not yet discovered that. Backward b/astards.
Aag lagaa kay, aag bujhaa-ey.

Sickness:*
Orientation is no more a sickness, they`ve recently discovered
It`s the lingo that was perverted, it`s `normal` what was `wierd




Security*:
They put a pile of gold on the street with a warning notice
whoever thinks of stealing this, will soon be sent to police.

Jealousy:*
Women are always jealous of the other women`s looks
Men are jealous of the others` power and check books.

*all ``poetry`` composed impromptu, on-line, on-the-spot....by echoboom!

Re: # 190

I don`t get it; what is so sick about it that it needs therapy; It is the natural order of things.

er... I have a question - why would someone lie ``TO`` their teeth? is this a new fad?

And sure women are sex objects - to men and lesbians.
But so too are men - to women and gays.
The problem comes in when that`s ALL that they are to you. In that case, you are a very sick person and have a number of un/diagnosed psychological problems which can possibly be rectified through therapy.

echo:

damn north american work ethics, i don`t have the peace of mind to think of anything right now. will post good stuff from home.

temporal:

you were right. i found valuable things in the website. thanks.

nt sahib:

i already knew you have become a sheikh.

Re: # 172 hamidm uncle, i have never heard this word `kulla` unless you are using it as `zanan-kullah` as in `ab-dullah`. my mother is from indian background and she passed on this term to me without any problems with the word (i wonder how can this word sound wahoosh to you). it describes a sitaution in which a man is too much in the women folks. either he has the bonafied gifts of nature or he seeks their company for some other reasons. by the way, there is a well proven trend that brothers of more than 4 girls usually evolve into something like a `zanan-kunna` even though they don`t necessarily become `zan-mureed`. has to do with nature.

for you, i don`t think you can become any of that by virtue of your daughters and wife. you need some hard core stuff for that. it`s too late for you. the best you can become is a `miyaan` and a `dadi`.

Re: # 178

Dear Sajal,

Mrs ntsyed and I wish to let you know that we`re proud of you! We pray to Allah that our only daughter grows up to be proud and strong Muslima like you!

M`as-salaam!

Re: # 180

hamidm2:

``............ but be careful - there is an inherent danger in quoting the garbled messages contained in a book that was put together by a winged creature and a man in a dark cave .....``

WOW...simply amazing!

And then they say it`s only the mullah and illiterate who strip the woman of her deserved status.

Nice going my secular friend!

Or should one say circular friend?

experiment:
م نہیں ہوتا ہے آزادوں کو بیش از یک نفس
برق سے کرتے ہیں روشن شمعِ ماتم خانہ ہم

Urstruly:
Huzoor kee khidmat meiN

``hoantoaN pey kabhhee unn kay miraa naam bhhee aey``

aur

hUm sey khuul jaaO, bvqt-e mai pstee eik din
vrnaa hUm chharraiN gey rUkhh kay, uzre-mstee, eik din``

aur (nothing to do with previous two; this is `home-made`)

Drawing roomoaN sey, Lecture-haaloaN sey baahir Aao toa daikh loa gay naya zamana
kay kUl jo tuum ko paRRhha rahay thhay, voh mazmoo-N aakhir ko thhaa puraana.

Re: # 179

...... i rest my case ........... i think if you ever get to ``know`` a woman, you will be surprised ........

Re: # 176

yous should have completed the sentence after dots; it makes even more sense with your ammendment

sajal:178
good post there.

But! Please do not be so hard on Mr. Teshah.

This is an excerpt from his intro. Read the rest of it on his profile..it reveals a lot more
about the teshah [most likely a takhaluus of him: it means a pick-axe wrt Farhaad, a symbol of a futile toiling loborer in Urdu metaphor.. eg.. a communist in a capitalist (hostile) environment]

``I am a retired gov. servant. Reading, writing, computering and viewing T.V. etc. are my hobbies. But inspite of all that I feel lonely as my wife whom I considered my life-partener for over 30 years became my enemy No.1......``

please ``understand``.

Re: # 178

sajal,

...... i think you misunderstood mr tehshah - i believe he was being facetious ........ he might have been trying to reflect what urstruly, echo and others of their ilk would say ......... right mr tehshah ??

............ but be careful - there is an inherent danger in quoting the garbled messages contained in a book that was put together by a winged creature and a man in a dark cave .....

Re: # 177 hamidm

I think this operative ``mere`` is only applicable at conscious level; at sub-conscious level woman is nothing but a sex object. Men have to put up quite an effort and repeated auto suggestion, in this regard, to stay at the conscious level; it is like someone drinking one coffee mug after the other on Monday mornings to stay awake and conscious.

Re # 157, Teshah,

see you assumed i was a man and i believe just like that you assume everything without knowing the facts.

I am a WOMAN and damn proud of it.


I suppose by your ``khetti`` you mean the same woman who has Jannat under her feet, who is seven times more exalted than a father.

Surah 30. Ar Rum Ayah 21

And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves
that you may find rest in them, and He put between you love and compassion;
most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.

2:99. We have sent down to you such clear revelations, and only the wicked will reject them.

Allah informs us about the just rights of each other on us:

But, in accordance with justice, the wife`s rights (with regard to their
husbands) are equal to the (husband`s) rights with regard to them,
although men are a degree above them; and Allah is Almighty, Wise.
Qur`an [2 : 228]

The statement that men are a degree above women means that authority
within the household has been give to the husband in preference to the
wife because a heavier burden has been placed on his shoulders by
another verse of the Quran which says:


Men shall take full care of women, because Allah has given the one more
strength than the other, and because they support them from their means.
Qur`an [4 : 34]


Narrated Abu Huraira, God`s messenger said: ``The believers who show the
most perfect faith are those who have the best disposition and the best
of you are those who are best to their wives.`` [Tirmidhi]

Aisha has related that the Holy Prophet, peace be upon him, would enter
the house with a pleasing disposition and a smile on his lips.
[Uswa-i-Hasana]

Narrated Abdullah bin Amr bin Al-As: ``Allah`s Apostle, peace be upon
him, said, `O Abdullah! Have I not been informed that you fast all the
day and stand in prayer all night?` I said, `Yes, O Allah`s Apostle!` He
said, `Do not do that! Observe the fast sometimes and also leave them at
other times; stand up for the prayer at night and also sleep at night.
Your body has a right over you and your wife has a right over you.```
[Bukhari]

Narrated Ibn Umar: ``The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, `All of you
are guardians and are responsible for your wards. The ruler is a
guardian and the man is a guardian of his family; the lady is a guardian
who is responsible for her husband`s house and his offspring; and so all
of you are guardians and are responsible for your wards.```

House women wherever you reside, accoding to your circumstances, and do
not harass them in order to make life difficult for them. Qur`an [65 :
6]

Narrated Abu Masud Al-Ansari: ``The Prophet, peace be upon him, said,
`When a Muslim spends something on his family intending to receive
Allah`s reward, it is regarded as Sadqa (spending in the name of God)
for him.```

Islam gave woman the right to reject a marriage proposal free from
pressure and by mutual agreement to specify in the marriage contract
that she has the right to divorce. If she deems the marriage to have
failed beyond repair.

Islam does not require woman to change her name at marriage.

Islam protects the family and condemns the betrayal of marital
fidelity. It recognize only one type of family, husband and wife united
by authentic marriage contract.

``Heaven is at the feet of mothers`` is a basic Islamic teachings.


Your post is utter Rubbish and frankly even replying to it I feel insulted.

You can take you ``Guttar mentality`` and keep it where it belongs in your mind!!!!!!