Adultery Anonymous

Re: # 5


I stay up late to read your ``india trip`` i-logs.I don`t see one today!!.Will we be lucky tomorrow??.Reading this article and many on this site is like enduring the cabaret in Pondicherry last weekend, named ``Le Cabaret``.Thank God there was plenty of booze.That`s why i find your i-log so refreshing and unique.If this much of ``kissing-up`` doesn`t induce you to refresh your memory and write , i don`t know what will.

[...Were you looking at the mirror when you came up with or copied this line?.The `other` could be your mirror image??.NO?.I think it`s quite apt.] - cayenne.

... do you know her?...

``The other Woman is a floozy. The other Man is a slimeball.``

...Were you looking at the mirror when you came up with or copied this line?.The `other` could be your mirror image??.NO?.I think it`s quite apt.


sincerely,

cayenne

Amit,
An extra-marital relationship often just happens, it is not planned. Also sometimes another relationship brings one to get perspective on the failure of his/her marraige. Things are not always black and white, and don`t look at everything from a right/wrong point of view.

amit:1
amit you seem to be the tahmad equivalent on the hindian side.

Have you ever considered that the `` relationship`` could be the cause as well as the effect?
It could be the trigger as well as the quarry?

As I said you are really a very nice, clean and simple person--like our own boyscout tahmad (stuck-at)32.

As if even little matters are within human control & grasp--and then people still deny existence of a Higher Power.

P.S:They perhaps do it, now that they have `education`, simply to prove the theory of evolution.

Farzana,

I understand if someone is unhappy in a marriage or has drifted apart and wants to get divorced. However, bringing a third party in a marriage and then using it as an excuse to leave the marriage is not right. It inflicts needless pain on your partner and wreaks havoc on kids. I dont think that is justified under any circumstances because it is a cruel and selfish act. Also, it is hard on the third party as well, who has to be the outsider villain/villainess wrecking someone`s family. If you do not like your marriage, leave it and then get into new relationships.