Fauzia’s Rejection

great....simply fabulous..!!
this society forces girls like fauzia to take such steps...and this sort of bullshits like:
hieght,,colour...i mean...i duno when the thinking of our ppl & especially the so called educated boys working in gud companies ..ready for "perfect marriage"..will change..huh

i have three words for you ...!!
short ,clear, ...and nice

it`s like a smallest love story i once read.
a guy asked a girl,``would you like to marry me ?``
she replied,``NO``
and they lived happily every after.!

Hi Bismil...great one,,,,welll it was very obvious that none of the paki guys would like it hehehehehhe,,,,,,well it showed......any ways,,,,its soo true,,,,,when some of you say that she should have faced the reality.....then she did she came back and started the process again and refused the guyss....welll to be honest she did the best given wht ever oportunity she got.....

welll some of u r right that to go out get a degree and job is not dificult in pakistan,,we dont have to go out....but its about opportunity,,,she got it she took it....

welll dont know wht to comment on the system as it sucks big time,,,,auntys going and searching for girl....its like a business go visit people and have free tea or meals...heheheh...any ways GOD bless every one.

scout betay tum say asay he article kee umeed thee

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She married John who loved her for what she was.So what you are implying is that people who are happily married in the East(there are quite a few) do not love their spouses or do not love them for what they are.Interesting observation but I beg to differ.It looks like the scribe has too much on his/her mind to actually bother with the ending,it sort feels hurried.So all the women who are dark should marry westerners and come back home with wonderful,bi-racial children.What a perfect solution to the endless dowries,nosey in-laws.Excellent solution!!!

it was a bit abrupt. perhaps the anticlimax is meant to be somehwat abrupt but its a bit tOO abrupt...

This is an amazing board full of interesting perspectives. The most amusing perspectives dealt with certain expectations and the fear of either losing or ignoring those expectations. I strongly believe that individuals ought to thrive as individuals first and then assigned into any cultural or religious denominations.

Re: # 311 by ZahraJ

``I strongly believe that individuals ought to thrive as individuals first and then assigned into any cultural or religious denominations.``

A noble notion indeed. However, I do wish you`d think about it in realistic terms vis-a-vis

- nature of human being
- his/her purpose in life
- his/her general behvior, needs, and wants
- his/her control over surroundings
- his/her belief systems and the need for those
- The Supernatural and paranormal forces and their influences, etc.

M`asSalaam to you and your loved ones. :-)~~

RE# NT sahib,

I don`t belong to any group or ``ILK`` as u kindly put it.

I agree to reasonable arguments put forth by either men or women. I however, do not believe in blindly following anybody or anything rather use my mind which Allah gave me to use!!!!!

Re: # 310 by sajal

I`m very glad for you that you are your own person.

My original impression of you was that of an independant and passionate person, with a knack for nothing but the truth and fairness. But it was shaken on this board. I hope the original impression is restored soon.

``I however, do not believe in blindly following anybody or anything rather use my mind which Allah gave me to use!!!!!``

Splendid!

I hope you will also incorporate NOT bashing anybody or anything blindly in your personality, and speak out against injustice even if your blood carries the guilt. For reasons I wouldn`t want to hazard a guess anymore, you failed to do that here.

Caution: the preceding statement may be more loaded than your own, so please think about it.

Please don`t be offended or feel patronized, but unlike most women here your passion reminds me of my sisters - most of them very strong independant professional ``Muslim`` women in deeds; then your innocence in some matters creates the image of my young daughter before my eyes. As it is I`m guilt-ridden for chastising you. Please forgive me for the hurt I have caused you.

I pray you grow to be a stronger, more beautiful, most independant woman you hold the promise for, like my sisters.

May Allah keep you in His Guidance and Protection.

M`asSalaam to you and your loved ones.

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Re: # 300

dear echoboom,

I know my friend. Second to Allah`s infinite Blessings, I`m grateful for your endorsement and relentless support.

I never doubt you and others for a moment.

Jazak-Allah

m`asSalaam to you and your loved ones

197 by Saminasha
So is NyetSahib the latest manifestation of Echoboom? He seems handicapped in the intellectual integrity department


#207 by Saminasha on May 22, 2005 5:16am PT
Nyet Sahib,


also know you are particularly an disgusting and worthless example of a human being...but even a jackass such as yourself would be embarrassed at calling a pregnant woman ``fat``....but from what I`ve learned from desi fundos, the depths of stupidity are unfathomable....


#227 by ZahraJ

won`t give a penny`s attention to the person you are wasting your time with. He may be a pervert. Please be on your guard


#223 by Saminasha

He is now a barking dog, and not fit for response.


#273 by ShoreSahib
Re: # 271

What a truly vile and poor excuse for a man are you.

Lanat hai

Mian tum pey


NtSyed.

Please dont be mean :)

Regards.

Re: # 299

Dear escapist,

mean?

moi???

``the handicapped in the intellectual integrity department, particularly disgusting and worthless example of a human being jackass calling a pregnant woman ``fat`` desi fundo with unfathomable depths of stupidity, a pervert barking dog not fit for response truly vile and poor excuse for a man``???

You`ve summed it up very well...LOL

I hear ya, my brother! ;-)~~

Jazak-Allah

m`asSalaam to you and your loved ones.