What Drives Men and Women of Indian Subcontinent to Infidelity?

Re: # 25
Kulharee, who are you, really? I think you are an avatar of some Indian-Chowki.

Making Love to Charpai is an interesting stmt. I have heard Chicken, Bakree, and some Baloon dolls.

But there are always new things to discover.....

I am only expressing my frank observations. If some Pakistani sentiment is hurt then I am truly sorry. Guys, I have seen a DESI-reporter(Indian Muslim) who was interviewing hookers in Montreal/Toronto and New York, and they said that they would not go with Pakistanis, as they often do not pay and generally have bad reputation among hookers.
Also, many westerners write about Pakistani Men being SEX-depraved, that is why Deptt of State recommends certain dress-code and precautions for woman when visiting Pakistan, Indian receommendations are not same.

(FYI, I was never beaten by any Pakistani boy in my childhood, by a Hindu-Yes but not by a Pakistani in all honesty. I did pay him back later on, real good and he carries rememberence on his body for rest of his life)
Many of my TaxiDriver friends in New York hold the same opinion regarding Pakistanis(including Muslim Pakistani Taxi Drivers).

Thanks for correcting me about ``masterbation`` not ``masturbation``.

delhiwalla #24: ``- Masterbation was denied to DESIs, now it is acceptable...............``

Master Bation may be the name of Master sahib who teaches English to teenagers, in Eastern Punjab. Or would that be Master Bishen? However my guess is you mean, ``Masturbation,`` and not Masterbation. Unless, of course, Sardarjis (or our Indian colleagues, in general) have discovered a new technique, called Masterbation, which the rest of us are still unaware of......Do enlighten us......

``Pakis and other middle easterners are probably the most SEX-depraved men on this planet.``

I am truly amazed how highly you think of Pakistanis. You had already designated us to be evil, disoriented, pathetic killing machines. Are we now sexually depraved also? Now I am not a psychiatrist (like our friend Shankar), but could it be that you were beaten up by a Pakistani, in childhood, and still haven`t gotten over it? :)

# 22, ok, now you`ve totally lost me. it was fine the way it is.

btw, if you are commenting on practice of Islam today, who are you to judge? and how can you be so sure Puritans were so ``pure``? what were they, aliens?

Re: # 24

Delhi yaar, that’s really interesting what you say. I had a friend who used to make love to a Manji (Charpai) – “bed cart”. He is now a Politician in Lahore. Most Pakistanis who go to brothels pretend to be Indians when asked their background. I think that’s pretty darn clever.

Are you in Delhi? I need some info... e-mail me at Kulharee@yahoo

Shukran

My summary:

- Masterbation was denied to DESIs, now it is acceptable.
- Sexual openness, thanks to Bollywood
- Over Population
- Easy access to Condoms
- Use of Sex for Fun rather than Procreation.


Pakistani men in the West are most famous for having SEx in brothels, why?

Because, People in Islamic countries are by far and large sex-depraved and they look for outlets, when available.

Saudis/Pakis and other middle easterners are probably the most SEX-depraved men on this planet.

Re: # 22

arthur,

...... so you you are trying to say that muslims are a bunch of shameless victorian hypocrites who put on an air of piety while they do all kinds of wicked things when (they think) nobody is looking - everyone will agree with that ........... dubai is a prime example ..........

Chowk Staff:

1) This article is heavily edited. So much so that the meaning of what I was trying to communicate has been lost and it comes across as a pessimistic commentary on the current state of affairs. (The original version does not contain any masala either - just for those who are base enough to demand it. If you are Muslims you would be ashamed of yourselves and if you are not then: how appropriate to associate a deplorable cultural attribute with base desires).
2) Please replace it with the original article or remove it from your website alltogether.
2.1) Where are all the other articles I wrote under the nom de plume of A. Shiraz?
3) Summary of what I was trying to say: something about the lifestyles of present day Muslims (who are in some sort of transition) lends them to this social evil that is hard to quantify but is often under the radar and surreptitous by its nature. Ref. to English rectitude and you will discover that when Muslims were pious like the English were in their heydey. This rectitude and virtue often has varying forces acting upon it :
- choices made due to external societal conditions: tyranny, democracy etc.
- choices made due to internal conditions : a desire to lead a moral and virtuous life leading to changes in external conditions and choices made by people (e.g. Puritans with a desire for piety departing to start anew on a British colony).

athar,

i don`t get the point of your article ...... infidelity is a universal phenomenon - even jimmy carter admitted to lusting for playboy bunnies .......... and desis are no better or no worse than anybody else - of course, for most of them, it is hard to think of sex on an empty stomach .............. so, what is new ?

Hein ji???

buk raha huuN junooN meiN kya kya kuchh
kuchh na samjhay khuda karay koi

aadaab.

Not even good `masala` in this article, except vague references to
a handshake with an auntie. What a waste of good BWth.

Re: # 16

aashee sweetie,

kaka has decided, right here, right now, to take you under his wings.. We shall discuss syllogism, argument making and thinking before typing.

After that, we will take over the world..

Re: # 3
>There is nothing immoral about two consenting adults having sex or pleasing one another.

Oh, come on...try selling this to your wife or girl friend.

Infidelity is not just confined to the Indian sub-continent. If that was the case, Desperate House Wives, would have not been a hit show.

very well written..touches some important issues and exlains why we cover our women....because our men are not of the purest material themselves...

enjoyed reading it

Di.

re #2 zainabsiddique

er... O. K.

how young do you think? age two good enough for you?