When Romantic Love Does Not Mature

Re: # 16

My dear Aslam Kit number 644

You have asked Sohail about two different things- dating and attracting opposite sex. I guess the order is wrong. It should have been attracting and dating. I think he should first tell you how to attract and then how to date them. What do you think?

Re: # 21
dear articulating, is it possible for you to send the article through my email address

welcome@drsohail.com

as an attachment for me to read and comment....sincerely sohail

hey docs
can u read this article and comment?
http://www.chowk.com/show_article.cgi?aid=00006711&channel=gulberg

Re: # 19

Dear Annu...thank you for your kind words. I will keep your suggestion in mind and might

write an article on how to deal with such people and how such people can help themselves.

If I write such an article I will submit it to the chowk editors...thanks...sohail

An excellent article. Full of knowledge, very thought provoking and pertinent. However, I guess a lot of people like me would have loved to read about how to deal with a person belonging to one of the groups, if one is stuck in a relationship with such a person.

Re: # 17
dr sahab
that is just my nic, i`m cetainly not that old i`m quite young, at least at heart.
regards

Re: # 16

dear aslam 644 (how did you become 644?)

thank you for your letter. i have already written a couple of articles for chowk. but i will

start thinking about dating....and hopefully share my views in the future.....sincerely sohail

dr sahab
i`d like you to an article on dating, some good tips on attracting the oppsite sex.
regards

Re: # 14
Dear articulating.... In my opinion there is two kinds of art and literature....popular art and

escapist literature....like Harlequen Romances....that provides cheap entertainment.

As far as people know it is escape from reality there is no harm but if people take it

seriously then we have a problem. Many Hollywood movies are just for entertainment

so are many Indian films. The second type of literature is wisdom literature that helps us

develop insights in human condition and become better human beings, better friends and

better lovers. Such literature provides not only entertainment but also enlightenment. I

have more regard for such literature. Stories of Manto and poetry of Kabir das, Walt

Whitman and Ghalib are such examples.

My website is www.drsohail.com and my email address is welcome@drsohail.com

sincerely sohail

Dr sohail......in which category wil you put the filmy love.......Devdas and Kuch kuch Hota hai and stuff.....
and do u think the movies we watch have a role in young peoples life who fall for the shallow love u mentioned above...
cud we get ur email address incase some of us wanted to drop a line away from he public eye?
Thanx......

Re: # 12
Dear Delhiwala,,,,no I do not know who Mr. Khamkha is?

Vanilla icecream and chocolate syrup is on PM`s homepage and I mnetioned it

affectionately, there is no connection with sex....sohail

DrSohail Saab:

do you know where Mr Khamkhwa is hiding these days?

Re: # 10Vanilla Ice cream and SEX, is this a Porn site or what?????

Re: # 8
Dear PM...who likes vanilla icecream with chocolate syrup....I have a great respect for Eric

Fromm and learnt a lot from him. I also learnt a lot from his wife Freida Fromm Reichman

who was a wonderful psychotherapist. thanks for your kind and generous words.

sincerely sohail

Re: # 7
Dear Delhiwala....aadab arz....thank you for your comments. I agree that many

relationships are about sex and some people sleep with anyone who is attractive and willing

but then some do not sleep with ANY person but only THE person they have respect and

affection and love with. Some relationships are one night stands while others last a lifetime.

I believe friendship is the cake and sex is the icing....all the best....sohail

Interesting read. Provided some good insight.
Reminiscent of Fromm`s Art of Loving.
Thanks, Sohail sahib.