The Marriage Trap DEAR MS B....

I`LL PRAY FOR U AND OTHERS....AND WISH U ALL GOOD LUCK.....IF U BELIEVE IN LOVE AFTER MARRAIGE U`LL DO JUST FINE........IF U TRY TO FALL IN LOVE BEFORE U GET MARRIED U`LL BUY ONE WAY TICKET TO HELL (OPINION....)

WOMEN HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO--EDUCATION AND FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE IS FIRST STEP........MOST OF MY MALE COUSINS WHO WERE RAISED IN US WENT TO YALE AND FEMALES WENT TO NYU..............

IT APPEARS THAT U R WELL EDUCATED...BECOME FINANCIALLY INDEPENDANT AND U`LL DO JUST FINE...........WOMEN SET THEMSELVES UP FOR POSTMARITAL ABUSE BY MANY BY NOT DOING THE ABOVE MENTIONED HOMEWORK....

HAIDER....

ILLINOIS,USA

A Pakistani Teenager in Canada DEAR BROTHER,

I READ YOUR LETTER AND WAS DEEPLY MOVED.

I AM 32 YR OLD AND ORIGINALLY AM FROM PAKISTAN..

I WAS RAISED IN SAUDI ARABIA AND WENT TO STUDY MEDICINE IN PAKISTAN......CAME TO USA FOR BETTER FUTURE AND ALHAMDULILLAH DID WELL...I AM A PRACTICING PHYSICIAN AND I JUST STARTED HAVING FUN IN MY LIFE.....

I WORKED IN SCHOOL HEALTH DURING RESIDENCY....DEAR BROTHER YOU R GOING THRU THE WORST TIME OF YOUR LIFE.......TEASING...PEER PRESSURE ETC........

IF U WAIT FOR COUPLE OF YEARS GENERALLY THINGS GET BETTER.........UNFORTUNATELY YOUR PARENTS WILL NEVER HAVE ANY IDEA OF WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU.......................

BUT U R DOING THE RIGHT THING........

EMAIL ME ANYTHING AND I WILL BE GLAD TO SHARE MY EXPERIENCE OF LIFE....

SNHAIDER@HOTMAIL.COM