In Sanity Farzana,

You took my phrase ``tell me about it!`` literally--it is an idiomatic expression in England! It means that I am familiar with what you mentioned NOT that I want you to tell me about it. Like if you say, ``The Godfather is a great movie!`` and I reply, ``Yeh! Tell me about it!`` It means I agree with you... (or is that an Americanism I have picked up from watching too many films..). I guess I should say thank you for the description anyway!!! :-)

A british paki looking for head and thanking Allah at the same time? That`s how you saw it right? :-) I thanked Allah that I had never seriously considered suicide and for life being a precious gift...

As for wondering if pakistani girls gave head--(or wanting it)--I`m sure I`m not the only guy in the world who has had that thought...

And believe me, my offer of Zehra to communicate 1-2-1 was nothing to do with fellatio whatsoever!

(as for the shar`iah ruling on oral sex...from my research it seems the ulama are divided on this issue...)

:-)

My moniker? Sensualpaki--well I am of Pakistani and I can be quite sensual i think...what`s the problem?

BTW, I like your posts!

In Sanity Zehra,

I really enjoyed your article. It had some very poignant and powerful passages. Some would call me a BBCD, perhaps then i can empathise with you more...perhaps I can`t. Am I a Pakistani or a Brit? I feel Pakistani but I don`t know much about Pakistan! My accent, many of my views are more British..but at the same time I have a strong belief in Islam..I have never questioned it.I thank Allah for that! But often i have been torn between my religious duties and the bright lights and fast living of british life...

Someone mentioned post-masturbatory guilt...tell me about it!

You know suicide is something I have thought about but never seriously--certainly not as seriously as you describe in your article (then again perhaps a lot of this article is fictional? Is it?)...I think life is the greatest gift from Allah...too precious to lose...and of course it is forbidden in Shar`iah...:-) (I`m a Sunni--dont know about shia law though regarding suicide...)

Oh yeh, I didn`t think that Pakistani girls gave head...certainly the girls i`ve been with haven`t (apparently I`m missing out on something REAL good!)..perhaps the girls in the USA are more liberated sexually? Or is it just you?!

:-)

Keep on writing...you are great fun to read! Actually have thought of submitting an article to chowk myself...

Anyway, I`d love to discuss with you one-to-one

email me on sensualpaki@yahoo.com

Porn for Girls hi mahim! I agree with you that people are a bit uptight on Chowk about matters sexual! It is a common Pakistani failing...

Wanking is one of the most pleasurable activities!

There are those who admit to it and then there are liars (amongst normal humans); it seems our people have a problem with it!

And is that anecdote about the coke bottles really true?

take care

keep on writing on Chowk!