Fathers and Daughters One need to appreciate the shock value of Freud as it was accepted as all started with "original sex" between Adam and Eve... that is start of all.He had courage to say not to be feeling guilty about sexual activity. They were brain washed for thousands of years about "original sin".

Fathers and Daughters Re: # 179 I will let my friend Mr. Masadi to talk for himself.
Now Freud had correctly observed the importance of "sex" in our life. It is my feeling as he wanted to stress those aspects so he was dramatic purposely and his points were made. He had to be dramatic as society was very puritan and controlled by guilt of Old testament which is sex oppressive and denying sexuality. The sex fear/sin had made Jews/ christians/ Muslims paranoid and still extreme oppressive in arab lands and denying sex content in society. That neurosis can be seen in behaviour by sexual pression and some times leading sex starvation and universal sex obsession.
This students( of freud) were much more less dramatic. Specially Mr. Adler in his writings.I can put Freud was like christ then adler and jung were like st. Paul who carried his message. To be first messenger he has to be dramatic and Freud was for sure.
Your article was very interesting and thanks for taking efforts to prsent it.
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Living Gandhi and King Today: Unbroken Historic Continuity My note to AH Amin about this going mudfest.

Dear Mr. A.H. Amin....I request to moderate your comments. I fear we can loose you. They may try to hurt you. We need honest thinking person like you to be alive and kicking. You have developed analytical skills and honesty( practice makes it second nature) to look at things as they are not to massage the facts. You are always swimming against "established" current as you try to find the source of problems so you have to go against current which is mindless and full of lies and half lies. Just It came to mind why people go on wrting about Jinnah and Gandhi. Why they not go to your historic analysis of Indo pak History. They loose in details which are nearly irrelevant in overall picture. It is and was a economic anxity and leading neuroris of and reactions of land owning and mercantile interests. You have written excellently about 1857. Now recent mudfest is comic, I lament to say the information is not knowledge, otherwise Libriaris will be full of knowledge. Knowledge does not take you much what is additionally required is wisdom to draw logical conclusions and learn from those. Kindly contribute to this newspaper and moderate. Hopefully many will realiase just shouting abuses does not prove or disprove any thing.
Your comment is 200% correct , this is all going Tamasha for last 60 years it has no substance just ecochember with recording of "his Masters Voice"
Sincerely A.Madani
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Fathers and Daughters Re: # 162 Dr. Sahib I agree with you. But It may be different in my mind than yours.Can you elaborate kindly.Father and daughter relationship quite different than son or wife as women are more complex / nonlinear. General women are very complex as even women have hard time understanding each other.( Men are easy to read they are transparent)
We are all sexual ( provided we are alive) but with daughters we have sex difference as we have affection than sex. That becomes complex in sense fathers have great interest in daughters and they worry far more for them. That is also a emotion and you can say is sexual sublimation and that occurs with time even in couple's life as they age and they are more affectionate as time passes.Almost all fathers have no erotic feeling towards them but of affection and care. There is more appreciation of daughters of their fathers as time passes. Women are lover for very short time but they are all time nurturers and care givers. I tell it from my experience and there is no competitive attitude between them as sons. THat can be seen from - all sons are compared to fathers but not with daughters are not compared or measured against fathers. I observed even in animal Kingdom. I had male cat recently passed away and My other cat with me is his daughter. I observed behavior of both and there was no incest ( which I was afraid off). Old cat some times use to go on wandering for few days.When he returned he use to come stand opposite his daughter and she will get up and greet him,he will lick her 3 to 4 times on head to show his affection and then he will go to sleep. As in sex most important organ is brain ( as per Per Vatsyana/ author of Kamsutra) conciously we have subtle differentiation and is amazing. That relationship is complex in Arab societies for varipous reasons ( basically lack of sex content in social life and sexual repression of women). Most arab tribals are at loss to deal with daughters and to avoid problems they just shun each other. This may be due to sense of guilt as Messaenger of god (PBUH) married his step daughter but that was different as god directed.THey may be afraid of daughters sexuality ? While european societies daughter sexuality is taken for granted by father and so automatic sublimation to affection. Obviously there factor of survival and biological subflow in affection ( your favourite book of Darwin).
There are more complex aspects but no place to go to it.
I got curious about your comment, was wondering what aspect was predominant in your mind. Speculation is normally wrong.
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MQM - History and Origins Re: # 116 Thanks Mr H, Che, and PKTurk for forgiving me for my mental deliquencies and putting efforts to read my English specially with my british English must be hard for gawar American langgage users. Unfortunately English is not my forte even when i was young and feels I wasted many my youthful years could have improved English. Also Thanks mr. H being sympathetic me even after my intelluctual comradeship with my friend Masadi and my hopeless antialcohol Ramblings. I have special respect for you as you understand I am not recist just prefer fair colored. Why people are so opposed to White colored ?Only you have supporeted my discretion about this matter. I wanted to write some thing about( even my white cat looks better to me than other no nothing dark cats.) I will not utter anything as with Ghost Mr. Gandhi haunting making Havoc on western front with help of his spiritual deciples I may be called recist etc.I am very fancied by foren from my childhood and foren people and smart people there. eVEN PETROL PUMPING MAN ATTENDANT SPEAKS pHAD pHAD ENGLISH .Some times now I feel bad, this foren this is looseing all importance. If Jat son goes to USA it is ok but when Kumbhar's daughter also goes to usa means things are not so good. When I was young just some body Vilayat return was some body to watch.I always envy all you buggers there in your 20s you must have lots white friends is really something( I mean girl friends), we just can fathom how lucky you people are.
Wonder is in usa and canada any shots against disease attacking gentleman from Lahore and Culcutta. So much heat and fury and lot heat and no light at end of tunnel.
Good morning to everygody, I am leaving without malice towards anybody including mr. T. ( Actually we are polite always but from time of my friendship with Masadi he has kept "Khunus" in his mind), so all go in peace and be happy.
Ahmed Madani Sahib ( Karachiwallah)

MQM - History and Origins Karachi is advanced place compared all rest of pakstan in most respects and mentally light years away.
Karachi is Singapore and other counry is backward Malaya.
Karachi should be given atleast freedom from Sindh/Rural and independent enclave. There is similar city Kaliningrad in Baltic. The port city of Russia surrounded by Batic state.In Kainingrad just like Mohajirs or New Sinhis they migrated and bcame dominant ethinic group with Russian language. ( Similar to new Urdu speaking Sindh Resident and armed with dinctive superior urdu language of Mughal emperors and nababs with Karachi with AAdab and Khandan and riwaj (( may it is hollow or bougus) and carrying more espectability- as can be seen by urdu conquering al all pakistanis and uniting all wthout any compulsion)) can function as well. It can act as Singapore for Pakistan. Karachi problem is similar to cart driven by horse and donkey. Donkey suffers as he feels this bloody horse is going too fast it is hard to keep ace and Horse suffers as he has to drag donkey with car and he can not pick up speed.
Karachi sufferes as she has to carry all and pull all backward country ecoomically as economic locomotive and suffers for ungratefuls.
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Living Gandhi and King Today: Unbroken Historic Continuity Muzumdar , sorry for you. You have contacted disease of Gandhiphobiya and Jinnaholic disease. This is worst than liquor and its terminal,thousands hour will be gone in waste. This all discussusion is from nothing to nothing.
Check with our friendly doctor from Australia he has any shots against this afflication.
Just I can consider this similar to some fish from America and Far East russia. They say he/ she is born in some stream
in river and travells down to sea and at end runs back to birthplace to go to havely abode.
How come yo attach dead gandhi and Jinnah to everything that goes today is amazing.
I have studied mathematical formulations for "memory material" , and memory/viscoelasticity elasticity and never met any such constitutive relationship.
Basic concept is what goes present depends on present situaion and past and mostly near past. All real materials fed memory fast expotentionally. Far past does not have much effect today.
Your behaviour is bordering on obsession of Gandi and Jinnah. If you enjoy all then fine . It is strange disease. You are looking at which happened 80 years back with telescope and magnifying it and looking at present situation with reversed telescope .

Good luck.
May be I am Mad , but behaviour is bordering on obsession.

Living Gandhi and King Today: Unbroken Historic Continuity Re: # 125 Arjun... Things are little unsettled.There is also little back stabbing pakistani economy going on by Indians.
Surprised no body noted the spokesman for SP rating agency who pontifacated against Pakistan economy and said pakistan Govt papaer bonds are junk, who was this spokesman ?
No surprise he is "indian with Hindu name".
Is not pure criminal of SP to allow major rating decided by Indians ?. In addition to many things east pakistan was lost due to large amount of "hindu Bengali teachers" who propagated "bhasha" problems and Bengali nationalism to defeat message of faith , unity and discpline.
Pakisn govt and muslim nations shuld contact SP to reassigen rating work to Nonhindus as there is conflit of interest.

‘Dustbin of history’ or ‘history of sorts’ It appears just like NRO mr. Z has deal of "kashmir" with americans? His utterance of FF as terrorists is strange. If he goes "too far" army may not stand looking away and let him decide. Mr. Kayani and Corp Commanders may be forced to move. Mr. Zatdari is making cardinal sin he is testing the limits of armies pain threshould. He is lucky as over 100,000 army men are fighting battles on western front. This situation is making army very reluctant to move against president. Army chief will abhor the war on both fronts, with TTP and groups in west and fight in kashmir in east. The army is already at cold war with india in Kashmir front and does not want the fronts opend in southern punjab or in Sindh. President is lucky with USA on backs of army and desperate to avoid second front he has got daring flexibility. He is business man in politics and who knows he is really talking of Trade with india of 20 billion dollars in next 10 years. This trade can harm Kashmir more as with influx of money going both ways like KSE is in pits , kashmir interests may be on sale cheaply. No body will be surprised , just like taleban which was fathered by ISI was abandoned are Kashmir interests gpoing same way, benign neglect if not out right hostility.
Like accountant one needs to put proper accounting for 60 years and what can be done so it will be good to pakistan. This does not mean we should consider as "business decison". This is not business decision but bolld relationship which can not be measured in money. Problem I feel is no ruler took "Awam" in confidence about Kashmir. People will pays even extra taxes say 5% extra if it can go to "kashmir army". Little donations of skins and contributions by awam will not help. If such fund is there then people will pay taxes if they feel this effort will lead to liberation of Kashmir. The problem will not solved by "talking" but only by swate and blood as this central point of contention in warring parties. Pakistan needs to raise additional about 3/4 million army only to be prepared only for liberation of kashmir. This give pakistani superiority by numbers over indians. Just now Indians are oppressing Muslims in Kashmir and we are say stop and they go beserk and beat even more. Now this army should be ready as things are climaxing and like fruit is ripening and will come down from tree without effoert. When it has fallen then army needs fast moving in and picking up ripe fruit very fastly. But strange talk with Zardari fruit which is ripe may fall and get stale and destroyed if not picked urgently. If Kashmiri get freedom as usual they will pay us back with ingratitude as is normal way of world. If they claim right to waters and start most useful to them will lead to scarity , Mangla will be gone and we will have to pay them in dollars. Present situation may be bad but if ripe fruit is not picked by fast by little push to tree ( army attack for liberation) future may be bleak and detrimental to interests of Pakistan at alter of freedom to Kashmir. Kashmir can have freedom only by joining Pakistan as federating unit. If things are not done properly it can be burden as East Pakistan. Nation should start on Kashmir specific specilised army for final confrontation against India and start making money commitment for liberation of Kashmir. For Claririty army spokesman should tell who is in charge of Kashmir strugglr President or Kayani. Kayani should clarify if he agrees with President as already President supporters are saying President did not say was reported. Too many cooks spoils lunch. It should be clarified at highest levels who is boss.What zardari is saying is against ideas of ZAB and BB , unless BB changed position.
President Z is smart. He is making statement to fool and please indians and Americans. Present situation is not good at this time he needs rest in country to dafeat enemies in western sector and then battles for eastern front will start in due time. Patience is virtue and he has shown his that the is great practioner of that, prisoner year ago is president, no mean feat.

MQM - History and Origins Re: # 20 Bhatta is nothing unusual just like engine needs main fuel and lubrication , it is lubrication make things go, normal business expense. Some body is always need to be paid so world moves

MQM - History and Origins Re: # 7
You have point but is pointless.
Poltics is concenrated economics and big money is involved. All parties are involved in murder and used as means to capture power.Even today everybody isuseing violence and murder from all sides. BB was killed by violence and Sindhis answr with burning and looting areas, like burning Railways property. In east Pakstan 50 thousand people slaughter being dark and worthless. On average recently 30 people are killed in nation per day at alter of politics.I think this gandhian way of dealing with opponents. Poor 300,000 people have fled from Tribal areas. Now it has no MQM connection. Now every party needs money and all other are looting and MQM does its little part. If you have to live and do politics and survive you need strong hands and will to carry out all needed ( including all you said)to survive. Please do not project only MQM is involved in such practice. All are involved. All army is involved in killing muslims to plaese usa what hapened to Mr. Bugti he was evaporated.Politics is bloody for all years and will be like that it is not england or Canada.No party today will survive if does not have "its army and strong arms to carry out military actions. Please do notsingle out MQM. MQM is not follower of Gandhi ( as A. H. said once said he has respect for gandhi but...). MQM has taught lesson to Punjabi Pathan PPI by useing their strong hand tactics and shown they will protect if needed even being more bloody than Pathans. It is credit to MQM to have shown hollowness of Martial races and and defeated them on battle fields of Karachi. MQM is very good to friends and deadl to enemies. I like president Z as he is pragmatic and has recognized as satrap of Urban Sind Mr. Hussain and Hussai also accepts Z area as Rural sindh. I am working on 7000 years ago, lions were widespread all over Indian subcontinents and some how tigers , lions respected their areas of influence and lived happily. Then equilbrium was lost and started overlapping then tigers just killed lions. Same way people should live and respct ethinic land or otherwise fatricide decides.So stop hatred against MQM selectively. Condem all all for violent wayss but plaese do not single out MQM for terror, money collection , murder it is jungle and all jungle survival.

MQM - History and Origins Re: # 1 All political Parties are exploiting people and now body is going to miss if all politicians are fed to Sharks of Arabian Sea.All politicians are corroupt and there is always exception to Rule and A.H. is exception.

MQM - History and Origins Re: # 1 Please stop hate and study the Altaf Hussains thoughts about various subjects. He is NOT POLITICIAN in need of JOB. HE is only Philosopher King and King of Heart of Karachians and Urban Sindh. ( He is not liked by Racist and fanatic people ). By active support and cajoling the expresident Altaf saved nation and civil war as average MQM followers were about to get in action ( similar to what sindhis did after sad demise of BB) but sageous advice and talking to MQM leadership Altaf saved Karachi and Nation. Quaid E Awam A. H. like Jinnah gave home to Indian Muslims he single handedly gave "Dharti" to new Sindhis and is acknowleded even by Sindhi nationalists indirectly and now they concede Karachi , Hyderbad, and all Urban Sindh is MQM country.
Long live MQM only democratic party of Pakistan and Mr. Altaf Hussain.

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Pakistan's Struggle for Democracy= mqm . CORRECT EQUATION.
MQM party is made by hardwoprking democratic , non feudal people.
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Dueling Partners: Pakistan and America Re: # 12 Mr. Tariq Ali is communist and advocates indirectly violent ways. I wonder why nealy communist person is "well respected " in west( UK,USA) ? If he had chance he will not mind bloody rvolutions and suppressing freedom. He is replica image like hindu Communist chief of Nepal mr. Prachanda. If chance comes he will be ruthless like Lenin, stalin, J. Basu (Bengali) and violent type people. He should be boycotted.