Life with Wife wel.....u gave in alot of minute details....and th eend was worth it.....and little one and elder one part and the light wallet part was cute......

The Summer of ’69 hey.....its a fabulous one! funny and subtle! liked reading it!

Internet Relationships – Blessing or Curse? hey....good one....internet relations r fascinating and contagiuous....and in Pak.....they seldome seems to work....people dont usually tell dramatic lies...like being unmarried or being a female...they juss perfect the hole ....like......pretending to be rich,...or living in aposh area...or having three affairs simultaneously.....many are bogus...lol
online you have the chance to be what u want to be...u can pretend to be a doc...even if u r a delivery nurse
once a british freind told me....she asked a guy to send him his pic....and he send it.....she replied......``DO YOU THINK I DONT KNOW WHO Sharukh KHAN IS!``
but i learnt alot.....from people who otherwise wont let u peek into their worlds...who usually put down their masks online and appear in their real selves.....sometimes the abusers and the abused.....one was paralyzed, another was a shemale....and some very precious freinds who r always jussa click away.....

Pakistan Bans Blogspot duh......bizarre...i am still posting on blogspot...and people abroad must be reading it!

Mother and Daughter - A Love-Hate Relationship things go compliacated when parents mistreat, especially when the situation isnt extreme and the entire picture looks greay rather then black or white........if u think marriage for love is right then rather then directly arguing......try to get ur own way and then prove urself right.....
dont let anything ur parents do bug u if it doesnt harm u in any way.......ignore when she backbites, try to avoid situations that trigger nasty behaviours......
imagine what ur mom is growing through...she is an old lady trying to protect her daughter from the whims of the soceity, sometimes over protective and sometimes over possessive but deeply in love.......trust me she never wants to harm u and usually does it unintentionally......
dont go into rebellion.....soother her down......let her have her will sometimes and have urs at others.......if she insists on things like ......covering ur head or not talking to a particular freind or relative.......do that to gain her support........and later on get ur own will on more important decisions.......make sure to remind her that u obeyed her at one instance and now its her turn to comply.........
its a life long battle.......u might never win the way u want to .....but u will minimize the negative affect of her on ur life........u have a mom better then many ......dont decide things as a reaction to her, like marying a guy u like simply cuz she opposes it......also, clear everything up in this world so that any of u dont take these matters in ur grave......

lol.....i am sorry for so many suggesstions but i hope u dont hate me for that......

Asma and Aruna the story was good one.....keep writting......lol......letter writting does get boring after a while....ammara

Lithium thanx for the story....only a few days back i was fretting at the rotten conditions of people in the mental institutions.....they sometimes forget that patients are still humans!

Victims of Racism! its the silliest article i have ever read....this kind of article can be published against ur saas or bahu or salla..no evidence for anything....and Punjab gave India Lara Dutta and Juhi Chawla....that doesnt make it superior....plus....ur nationality as an indian comes first rather then ur province....the game cricket and the national team shud have preference rather then the race of the captian....saruv is good....but his career might b sliding down now....its a part of the game...u rise u shine and the u fade away! if u have this notion that ur province is superior....u r nothing but a young boy blinded by prejudice and above all silliness.....relax...open ur mind now....

Victims of Racism! its the silliest article i have ever seen....this kind of article can be published against ur saas or bahu or salla..no evidence for anything....and punjab gave india Lara Dutta and Juhi Chawla....that doesnt make it superior....plus....ur nationality as an indian comes first rather then ur province....the game cricket and the national teamm shud have reference rather then the race of the caption....saruv is good....but his career might b sliding down now....its a part of the game...u rise u shine and the u fade away! if u have this notion that ur province is superior....u r nothing but a young boy blinded by prejudice and above all stupidity!

Laddo Ki Shadi Re: # 10lol! all this sounds more like muddled up ideas then bad english.....and by the way its :
Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in
its own way.
and little did i get of the rest of them......and thanx.....i am glad this story had positive write ups...though i would have continued writing anyways!

Laddo Ki Shadi Re: # 8thanx madanni.......i agree there is a space for improvement and that the russian short stories and D.H.Lawrence will help.....i read anna kerenina though......and it was fabulous!!i write to learn and thats the beauty of chowk.....
true that these days we r tangled up among the crowd that ACTS intellectual...thanx for the kind words...i too have seen many women who have this general feeling of sadness and many of then shed tears .....some almost everday and apparently they have everything to be happy for.....i.e family and money......i am encouarged..thanx madani.......

Words of a Woman too many qoutes and very few points.....sounds like an anthology.....rather then an article

For Better or Worse one of the cheif problem in our culture is......we have this mardana attitude according to which men neither take care of kids nor cook....this isnt so in west......though the burden still falls on women there too.......they r left with extra chores......the baby wakes up thrice in the midst of the nite....and hubby darling is snoring which can b frustrating if u havta wake up too early in the morn to work.......

Sexual Harassment in Karachi: Whose Fault? almost eveeything i was going to say has already been said.......except for......the article was sensitively written and the personal experiences of the author is what i can relate to........1 million %........thanx!

Is This Why the Jews Are Disliked by Other Religions? jews r a small community......muslims and hindus of south asia r 2 billion...........and so r the christians.....its a small community for jews to menage and hava feeling of unity.....plus as far as international politics is conerned.....they r prickly......i cant say i like jews cuz their kids dont throw eggs on busses.......kids who throw eggs......form gangs, abuse drugs.....are kids in difficult circumstances, muslims or christians they need help and a break....plus, only a handfull of muslims r fundamentalists or fanatics ( thank God!!)......the rest r plain harmless........some clean, some not so clean people.......its unwise to judge a community cuz of one doc.....even robbers and gang memebers who are looters and plunderers are honest to each other and usually dont kill a member of their own gang......that doesnt mean we fall in love with em......cya

Who Really Exploits Women? women were hired cuz they made cheaper labour.....if they demand more...cheaper men will take over.....u r one of the few gender sensetized folks.....men and women in general.....take teh short cut....raher then fighting for the rights of daughters.....lets pray w have sons.....rather then working outside...lets stay at home as a home maker and watch kyunkey saans bhi kabhi bahu thee......educating and empowering women is not so easy u see......thanx